OMG, girlfriend went insane PART 2 (things get weird!)

[KillingTime]

i know a lot of ya'll were following my original thread on this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114665

this is a LONG and complicated/messed up story so I suggest reading the original thread first or else you will be totally lost as the story has just taken even more strange turns.

OK, I know I left everyone curious as to what happened, well it's been a week and a lot of the pieces came together.
A few days later she starts calling and calling me, I finally answer and she is back to herself, tells me that she's so sorry she snapped, that she did it on purpose to just try to end the pain as fast as she could.
I'm like "Ok, well thank you and have a nice life, bye"... she starts crying and tells me "please don't let me go",
We talk some more and she suddenly says "the weirdest thing is happening though, my parents are suddenly asking about you all the time, how you are and why we aren't going out anymore"...

AHA! They got the letter! They just never told her. I just went ahead and told her about it, she was very calm about the whole thing.

She now starts calling me again, I am now just working at analyzing how she reacts to everything I say etc.
I've put some things together:
- There was no other guy involved, BUT her parents aren't the true issue. The real problem seems to be her, she is extremely afraid of SOMETHING... i don't know what. Her parents now know everything and they didn't even get mad at her, yet she still seems terrified... of what I have no idea.

She calls me again. She won't LJBF me, but she makes much mention that she "doesn't know how she feels", she seems super confused yet her words and her actions are completely different. Soon after she mentioned that she didn't know how she felt, I slowly start being really sexual with her to see how she reacts... sure enough, she gets totally into it and tells me she wished I would just go over and f*ck her all night.
I soon stop this, I was just testing her. I let her go and she soon calls me back (this is around midnight) begging me to just stay with her a little more, every now and then she starts getting really flirty and then she seems to snap herself out of it.

See what I mean? Her words say that she's not sure if she wants this, but her actions (telling me she wants me to f*ck her, among other things.. she got graphic) pretty much say she's still into me.
I'm no psychologist but it seems like she is desperately trying to hide her feelings because she is scared... I don't know what she's scared of though.
She blurted out "i know the situation sucked for you, and i felt like you were just going to push me away and leave me"... then she quickly said she didn't want to talk about it anymore. Referring to the fact that i'd often get annoyed b/c we couldn't see each other much, I know in a past relationship she got ditched really bad and she never totally got over it... i dont know if thats what she was still scared of or what.
I'm expecting a call from her again tonight since she asked if we could talk again... silly girl, says she doesn't know if she wants this yet won't leave me alone.

 

[Last Man Standing]

A few days later she starts calling and calling me, I finally answer and she is back to herself, tells me that she's so sorry she snapped, that she did it on purpose to just try to end the pain as fast as she could.
I'm like "Ok, well thank you and have a nice life, bye"... she starts crying and tells me "please don't let me go",
We talk some more and she suddenly says "the weirdest thing is happening though, my parents are suddenly asking about you all the time, how you are and why we aren't going out anymore"...

AHA! They got the letter! They just never told her. I just went ahead and told her about it, she was very calm about the whole thing.

Why are you believing her story already?? She wanted to end it fast so she snaps at you to get rid of you?? But then a week later she calls you and wants you to treat her like a hor???? Her parents are asking about you which tells me they like you but she hid you from them for a year because she said they don't like you??? WHAT in Sam-hill is going on here!!!!!!!!!!! Shyt don't make sense!!!

This chick is sneaky!!!! Careful!!!!!!

Yu got sum explay'n to do Luuucy!!!!!

 

[KillingTime]

MY PLAN:

Alright so here's the deal, I really want to see if I have what it takes to re-ignite this/fix this... her words are very negative but her actions still show a lot of interest in me. Of course I'm going to go out with other women, but I want to challenge myself with this one on the side, a part of me thinks I can pull it off.

Plan A: Just back off and completely ignore her. It's what I did the first week and within a few days she was calling and calling... but it doesn't seem to be enough.

Plan B: Completely mirror her. just totally go along with the fact that we are just friends, but turn the teasing, flirting and C&F WAY WAY WAY up. This is how I originally had her fall for me, she went ga ga.
I will never call her, I will only do this when she calls me. I'll refer to her as my good friend and tell her if im going out on a date or something, but when Im talking to her or see her just flirt like mad.

What do you guys think of that second plan? My hope is that it will just drive her insane b/c it's obvious that she still has a lot of feelings for me.
Thats similar to what I did the other day... I jokingly called her my "buddy", then very slowly started talking really sexual, she, giggling, said "we shouldn't be talking about this anymore" and I just told her "Your right, friends shouldn't talk like this... but you know you want me to f*ck you" and she said "yea, i actually really do"
Im thinking if I keep pulling that, agreeing that we are just friends yet speaking totally different through our actions and making her jealous by letting her see that im out with other women it might just drive her crazy enough to snap her out of this.

If it doesn't work, no big deal, I'm seeing others on the side. If it does work, cool beans lol... I showed myself what I'm capable of.

 

[KillingTime]

Why are you believing her story already?? She wanted to end it fast so she snaps at you to get rid of you?? But then a week late she calls you and wants you to treat her like a hor???? Her parents are asking about you which tells me they like you but she hid you from them for a year??? WHAT in Sam-hill is going on here!!!!!!!!!!! Shyt don't make sense!!!

This chick is sneaky!!!! Careful!!!!!!

Yu got sum explay'n to do lucy!!!!!

Oh i'm not judging her based on her words, I indirectly found out through people she knows, who don't know about the situation that she definately hasn't been out with anyone, she's been spending all her time with her family.
there's something going on with her that doesn't involve another guy OR her parents... she's got some really deep issue or something.

LOL you are so right, this is a really messed up situation, like I said above I'm going to have my fun with it on the side. I flat out told her, ok im out of your life... and she starts begging me not to go. WTF is that all about lol?

 

[Livinlifehard]

My opinion about your first post (part 2 above) (didnt read the replys):

She could have pushed you out of her life for multiple things, mabe her ex guy started calling again... mabe she was pms'ing... i could be harmless or harmfull. Anyways I would just keep her on the side (i know your emotionaly attached) and just have fun with her, but understand... be prepaired to get hurt. **** happens in life... if your prepaired for the worst then its easyer to drop her. I was prepaired last time, and if i wasnt then i could have made bad decisions...

If i was still there (i moved to vegas 2 days after dumping her, the move was preplaned), i would probley still have her as a FB, and then say i dont want anything real yet because she hurt my trust from how she acted... its going to take a little while to make up. and just wait till i find someone elnce.... but i am not there so i cant say if that would work or not.


Short version: be prepaired for bad information, the worst... try to keep her on the side as a FB till you find someone better.

 

[musclyjerk]

She's a damn liar. Look how she's manipulated you already with a few phone calls.

Forget her, tell her that's it. Don't let her crying manipulate you.

This chick is trouble. Believe it and get rid of her from your life before she does it for you. ..And she will.

Sigh. Why are you bothering to post? You are only going to do what you want to do anyway. Go let yourself be made a fool of if that's what you want.

Maybe you will learn from it and be less tolerant of this behaivour from chicks in the future, as you will see it for what it is.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[Last Man Standing]

This girl is a liar and very dangerous - very manipulative -- I still can't believe she kept you a secret for a year and you went along with this!!! Get answers before you go any further -- talk to her parents without telling her -- tell them everything!!!! And see if her story is real or a BIG lie!

Do some reconnaissance!

Bring in the paratroopers or the navy seals, depending on the geography!

 

[d9930380]

I have been in a similar situation and it's almost the unknowing that is the problem. You don't want to throw one away if you are wrong and she isn't just manipulating you for whatever purpose.

Maybe she wants you to take her away from the "safety" of her parents and now blames you for not doing this, she can't blame them even to you. She needs you to earn it.

 

[Scorched]

MY PLAN:

Plan A: Just back off and completely ignore her. It's what I did the first week and within a few days she was calling and calling... but it doesn't seem to be enough.

Sounds like she is kind of using sex to pull you back in...

Yeah bro, let her call you, let her do all the work...
Let her earn you, then and only then will she truly value you.
She owes you, you can seriously keep her on the side as a **** buddy...
Ignore half her calls, keep the calls short, tell her "I forgot to call you back" or "I was going to later" etc...

You guys should go out in public and stop doing **** behind closed doors.
Still be "friends"...
Seriously bro if she isn't sucking you off and dropping her panties on the spot... drop her, i wouldn't waste my time...

 

[Demon]

This is a girl that called me all day to tell me she loved me, she treated me like a king. Today she turned into a completely different person... I mean out of nowhere, overnight she went from telling me she loved me to being angry, hostile and screaming at me to get the hell out of her life or she would call the cops on me.

Based on just that information, there's no reason for you to continue any sort of relationship with her. MOVE ON.

 

[Leporello]

Just fvck her already...if she's into it, keep her around as an FB, and if not, get the hell away.

 

[typical]

Yea man fvck her and move on man all she wants is you to bone her, then decide what happens stop listening to her words and listen to her body, screw everything else man.

Personally she doesnt sound like the person you want to spend time with move on even the sex aint worth it aye. Plenty of pvssy out there.