Omg Black Women?!?!?

[Drum&Bass]

So stick to "your own", and shut up about it. Let other people live their lives how they want.

This was awesome ^^ (and it should have been the point you stuck with)

Anyway, I live in the US and I rarely see attractive black women. Rarely enough that when I do, I'm like "Whoa, a hot black chick!"

This ruined everything. ^^

 

[DonGorgon]

Hi Don,
I'm a black male as well, and I spent half my life living in the south so I understand. However, just as with any race, QUALITY is rare. In terms of "sistas", it's true that a lot of them are after thugs and pretty boys. You don't want them anyway.

To get a quality lady, you need to hit up the more upscale parts of town: bookstores, health food markets, and upscale lounges that cater to 21/23+ crowds. You might also consider plentyoffish.com and aim for women who've graduated college with no kids.

As men mature and become older, we will naturally become more selective. Don't get bitter. Just select wisely homie!

thanks for the good advice and bringing the thread back on track..lol i live in atlanta and its a pain out here too many desperate men so the women even the ugly ones have the worst attitudes .. i am getting older and all the high school games are getting really old but it seams like these people want to live like they are 18 well into their 30s...

Im am tired of:
1. them saying "i cant find any good men, especially black ones"
2. them dating and Fing gay/downlow men then pretending to be surprised when he decides to leap out of the closet and live 100% gay
3. them saying im ugly cause im dark and dont have eurocentric features..

 

[DonGorgon]

I notice that the Blacks that actually have pride in themselves are the ones who marry within their own race usually ie Will Smith. The media also plays a part in promoting gansta culture that does nothing for Black people.

you are soo rite but its hard fro many blacks to have pride living in a culture that shows blacks to be the scum of the country... the lingering side effects of the past are still to strong .... race mixing is part of the process that will change the face of what "black' is in america.. i.e. lighter skin with more eurocentric features

 

[DonGorgon]

LOL. Non white poster posts on a board full of virgins and frustrated white guys about how hes having a hard time with non white women. Debates about race and prefences insue.

Seriously its SS what did you expect OP? Sympathy? These white guys here have a strong victim mentality, if their beliefs about women are so screwed up that they need help with this, why wouldn't the rest of their beliefs be any better hahahaha.

they are only human you know how that goes.,, i seldom expect much from any human any more.. i just get up every morning and pay my bills...

 

[DonGorgon]

So are we all done in here? Thanks mods for not shutting this down I feel like someone learned something in here

 

[slaog]

Huh lol? What are you even talking about? Help me understand, your OK with some race mixing now? Which is it? Before you said you were against race mixing all-together.

Basically, your backtracking and no longer making sense. Ultimately you need to realize that you have no control over what other people do in their personal lives, and you should probably just worry about your own.

I said I don't care as long as they go somewhere else. I don't want to live in a muli ethnic country.


You'll notice I'm not saying anything negative about Black women or any other race but some people are including all those who are ok with race mixing. So you have me who love my own people and you have others talking negatively about Black women but because of media propaganda I'm the big bad racist here even though I didn't say anything negative about any race!

 

[Drum&Bass]

I don't want to live in a muli ethnic country.

You have to realize that even though you have NOT done or said anything wrong...it hurts on a very deep level when people are rejected for reasons beyond their control.

 

[slaog]

you are soo rite but its hard fro many blacks to have pride living in a culture that shows blacks to be the scum of the country... the lingering side effects of the past are still to strong .... race mixing is part of the process that will change the face of what "black' is in america.. i.e. lighter skin with more eurocentric features

Part of modern propaganda is to stop all people having pride in themselves and put everyone down. Gansta rap has not become "cool" by accident. It shoved down peoples throats and soon people saw it so much it because to seem normal behaviour. When people see everyone on TV behaving in a crazy manner (taking drugs, beating their girlfriends, in and out of prison) it soon begins to become normal. Thats why the most talked about celebs are the biggest nutcases. After years of that people don't know whats normal behaviour.


All the AFC's on this site have been influenced too. Seeing all those romantic movies where the man makes the woman fall in love with him by doing nice things for her. No wonder modern men are confused. On the opposite end of the scale theres the sports stars who treat women like dirt and think they're great.


Women are turning into sluts as a result of the propaganda. They're dressing like hookers, taking drugs and basically acting anything but ladylike. Their new role models include slut Paris Hilton etc.

 

[slaog]

You have to realize that even though you have NOT done or said anything wrong...it hurts on a very deep level when people are rejected for reasons beyond their control.

Thats life. Its like a gay person feeling rejected by somebody who doesn't like gays. Its nothing personal so they shouldn't take it personal.


If a Black woman has high self esteem and I said that to her it wouldn't bother her in the slightest. So what I'm saying is its more to do with how they feel about themselves than how I feel about them. Me saying it only brings up how they feel.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

"these white guys"

"these black guys"

"this race is better because of..."

"i like this race of woman because.."

Howabout you like what you like instead of trying to justify it to other people with subjective taste? Howabout you be responsible for YOU as an individual instead of a white man or a black man? How about believe what you believe and doing what you do makes you who you are?

How about you all take some personal responsibility and represent YOURSELF instead of an aesthetic quality and making judgments off it? We're racist because we CHOOSE to be. It's not hardwired into us. You think it's hardwired in to a white baby to smile at a black man when he smiles first? No.

Love yourselves first, people. Then attempt to be responsible for a bunch of people with the same color skin as you. You'll find after a lot of soul searching that it's quite silly.

Like who you like man. Peace and love, peace and love.

Edit: btw this is my girlfriend and she's VERY BLACK: [EDIT n/m not a good idea to leave that up lol]

Edit 2: She might not like me posting this here...but **** it.

 

[Radharc]

I said I don't care as long as they go somewhere else. I don't want to live in a muli ethnic country.

Wow, I hate to break it to you, but it's 2010, there´s this thing you may have heard about called globalization. Good luck finding a non multi ethnic country that is worth living in.

 

[TIC]

I said I don't care as long as they go somewhere else. I don't want to live in a muli ethnic country.


You'll notice I'm not saying anything negative about Black women or any other race but some people are including all those who are ok with race mixing. So you have me who love my own people and you have others talking negatively about Black women but because of media propaganda I'm the big bad racist here even though I didn't say anything negative about any race!

First of all, you should admit you've backtracked multiple times in your argument. To begin with you said you opposed all genetic mixing. Now your saying you don't care if people do it, so long as your own country is not participating in it.

Assuming your fairly intelligent, you already know what you have to do. Germany is a good place (very pure blooded population). Japan also. I don't know you ethnicity, just throwing out homogeneous countries for you to be in heaven at.

There are a few countries that still live in the past such as those, so buy Rosetta Stone, learn your new language, fly over, and then maybe you can stop telling everyone else what to do and start worrying about your own life

 

[Solomon]

wow

Have traveled a little and what I've noticed is that people tend to be more racist when they aren't exposed to many different kinds of people. They may live in white / black ONLY areas and make generalizations about the other race because they may have had bad experiences. Like for me if all I was around all day was white people and Samoan people and I had a number of bad experiences growing up with Samoan people I might create and sustain a stereotype about Samoans, but since I've been around so many races and cultures I know that some people are cool and some aren't and the race they come from isn't the determining factor.

I agree, for two years I went to a high school, were there was lot of racial tension. The high school was 95% white. I was cool with a lot of the white people there but a lot were racists as well. Most people only knew stuff about black people what they saw on "Bet" and "MTV" needless to say it go so bad that they needed an "intervention" from an outside company. The problem was simple, like yuppaz stated racially ignorance, generalizations, and tons of stereotyping. People who not only travel but have experienced different cultures tend to be more open minded in my experience. Whereas people who only stick to themselves, tend to be racists to the third.

"these white guys"

"these black guys"

"this race is better because of..."

"i like this race of woman because.."

Howabout you like what you like instead of trying to justify it to other people with subjective taste? Howabout you be responsible for YOU as an individual instead of a white man or a black man? How about believe what you believe and doing what you do makes you who you are?

How about you all take some personal responsibility and represent YOURSELF instead of an aesthetic quality and making judgments off it? We're racist because we CHOOSE to be. It's not hardwired into us. You think it's hardwired in to a white baby to smile at a black man when he smiles first? No.

Love yourselves first, people. Then attempt to be responsible for a bunch of people with the same color skin as you. You'll find after a lot of soul searching that it's quite silly.

Like who you like man. Peace and love, peace and love.

Edit: btw this is my girlfriend and she's VERY BLACK: http://modelmayhm-0.vo.llnwd.net/d1/photos/100921/08/4c98ce15d26cc.jpg

Edit 2: She might not like me posting this here...but **** it.

Amen, there is a lot of ignorance in this thread, personally I'm not worried about if a guy likes "this race" or "that race". What troubles me is how ignorant some guys are in 2010 especially in this community. Some of the comments in this thread a truly pathetic and sadly it's by some of the so called "vets" here. Personally speaking I understand were the OP is coming from (I'm black) but like Flyness said "quality" in any race is rare.

@DG
Also there certain places were rants shouldn't be posted. Don, IMO your better of starting a blog, your posts always come of sounding as absolutists(you always say it's a fact when its your opinion) and such. I remember talking to you about this a year ago, and you said you were going after "ghetto" broads. We both know these chicks aren't quality, I've followed your posts ever since I started on here, and I''m surprised your still dealing with that issue, because you seem to be a "worldly" and somewhat intelligent guy. My verdict is simple, start looking for women who are bringing more tangibles to the table besides punany and ass, once you upgrade your game and moral code, these issues will solve themselves

 

[Radharc]

Germany is a good place (very pure blooded population).

I agree with your post, but Germany is not a good example, lots of turkish ppl there. Maybe Lichtenstein, not sure though.

 

[slaog]

Then go start your own country. Otherwise mind your own business.

It is my business who my neighbours are.

First of all, you should admit you've backtracked multiple times in your argument. To begin with you said you opposed all genetic mixing. Now your saying you don't care if people do it, so long as your own country is not participating in it.

Like I said already I don't want MY culture destroyed. I know alot of you don't give a sh!t about where I come from but I do. Is that hard to understand?

Wow, I hate to break it to you, but it's 2010, there´s this thing you may have heard about called globalization. Good luck finding a non multi ethnic country that is worth living in.

Globalization is great isn't it. Rich getting richer poor getting poorer. The whole scam will collaspe soon judging by the waythe economic bubble is bursting and the sooner the better.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

It is my business who my neighbours are.

It's not a bad thing to know who your neighbors are. It's a bad thing to force your business in theirs - especially when they want to be happy. You'll be alot happier working on yourself. You have no control over others.

Like I said already I don't want MY culture destroyed. I know alot of you don't give a sh!t about where I come from but I do. Is that hard to understand?

Who gives a Sh!t about what YOU want when it comes to another individual trying to make a place in this world? Who cares about your predjudice? Why should a person who is the same race feel shame or obligation towards you? It's none of your business. It's not your shoes to walk. It's not your life to live. You're not a spiritual advisor, a euginics doctor, a father who knows it all. You're not God. F*ck you. (I don't mean "f*ck you" personally - I just wanted to put you into perspective)

Like Jay Z said; "What you eat don't make me sh!t".

Globalization is great isn't it. Rich getting richer poor getting poorer. The whole scam will collaspe soon judging by the waythe economic bubble is bursting and the sooner the better.

Globalization has nothing to do with a black Kobe Bryant marrying a latino. He cheats, but that's a different story. lawl

 

[Radharc]

Like I said already I don't want MY culture destroyed. I know alot of you don't give a sh!t about where I come from but I do. Is that hard to understand?

Well, cultures evolve, they dont remain stactic, they are subject to influences from other cultures, they assimilate elements from other cultures and eventually make them their own. It´s just how it works. Or you think your culture was just created ex nihilo on a single day?
Maybe you like pizza? Italian. Maybe you like blues, jazz, rock and roll? African slave music. I can go on forever...

Globalization is great isn't it. Rich getting richer poor getting poorer. The whole scam will collaspe soon judging by the waythe economic bubble is bursting and the sooner the better.

Actually that can be disputed, places like India, Brazil, Russia - for instance - have never been as rich as they are now, in the sense that now they have relevant middle classes that keep growing. Globalization as many interesting aspects, one of them is the tranfering of industry and services to those countries, raising the standards of living in those places. Another is that it makes it more and more easy for ppl from those places to come to the West - the mainstream "culture" is more global than it had ever been.

I´m allready getting quite sidetracked here, sorry for that.

 

[Drum&Bass]

Its nothing personal so they shouldn't take it personal.


If a Black woman has high self esteem and I said that to her it wouldn't bother her in the slightest. So what I'm saying is its more to do with how they feel about themselves than how I feel about them. Me saying it only brings up how they feel.

As a human being you are born with emotions. Having high self esteem isn't going to protect you from getting your feelings hurt especially when it comes to factors that you have no control over.

Not only are you a white nationalist / supremacist / racist...you are also a sociopath.

Thats a very dangerous combination. I hope you do everything in your power to live on your little island where you can't do damage or hurt anyone.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I'm glad no one is falling for Slaog's bull****. Reps 2Uall

 

[DonGorgon]

Part of modern propaganda is to stop all people having pride in themselves and put everyone down. Gansta rap has not become "cool" by accident. It shoved down peoples throats and soon people saw it so much it because to seem normal behaviour. When people see everyone on TV behaving in a crazy manner (taking drugs, beating their girlfriends, in and out of prison) it soon begins to become normal. Thats why the most talked about celebs are the biggest nutcases. After years of that people don't know whats normal behaviour.


All the AFC's on this site have been influenced too. Seeing all those romantic movies where the man makes the woman fall in love with him by doing nice things for her. No wonder modern men are confused. On the opposite end of the scale theres the sports stars who treat women like dirt and think they're great.


Women are turning into sluts as a result of the propaganda. They're dressing like hookers, taking drugs and basically acting anything but ladylike. Their new role models include slut Paris Hilton etc.

great post I hope these folks read it cause it the truth