SupaPowa
Don Juan
HOLY F**KING GIGADONKEY D**K ON A MORBID MOUSE CORPSE INFLATED WITH SNAIL SNOT!! *Takes a few deep breaths*
I actually GOT a number from a girl I actually got along with like GOLD!! I dunno, I guess it's because I recently got "fed up" and decided to try stuff and started reading the DJ bible (Not far...only at like, page 16) and whatever else I can do to start fixing my inability to speak to women. But anyways...The book asks that I describ my success and how it went or whatever so hear goes...
I met her on PlentyOfFish.com and we made plans to meet eachother in town. Now what I had running through my head was to avoid making a mistake that I made every other time I tried communicating with a women and it was...
EVERYTHING!!
Basically, after watching things like "DoubleYourDating" and getting started on reading this DJ book thing, I didn't really learn much use from any of the advice...BUT, it's not because it wasn't working. You see, I quickly had the theory in my mind after getting into this stuff based on one predictable mistake that made me screw up in every way possible and it's this...
The material from all the advice and dating help stuff I've been getting into was WAY TOO MUCH to remember. It felt like I was going to war with a handgun but trying to stuff it with huge tank missles as my ammo. Or like a clown juggling 100 diamond chainsaws...etc There's far too much material. Now I get that it's good stuff and that it eventually works, I don't want to discredit the material itself. But what was happening is that I was being overwhelmed with all of it and didn't know where to start. So rather than try to remember it all and review it. All I did was summerize only the material I figured was "best for me" and literally brought it down to three easy to remember rules, and they were...
1. Don't be a goof!
As in...My jokes use to be REALLY lame. And I saw ****y Comedy a while back and learned that being a goof is a top fail. But the best part was that I didn't need to be ****y or remind myself to be...See what I mean by remembering TOO MUCH? All I did was not be a "goof" and let the rest fall into place by itself.
2. THINK before talking!
...I'm in no rush! This is my worst one...I always talk like I'm in a hurry, but lately I've been working to control it.
3. Comfort over material!
If I wasn't comfortable being a certain way or saying something then I wouldn't apply it. Now I know you guys are probably thinking (no duhhh!) but to have SEEN it work in real life makes all the difference. There are soooo many things and "ways of thinking" that I learned from all the material I was watching and reading...But it was NOT using it that made things work for me. Because in the past, if I tried using it...It would fail really fast. Not because the material is bad, but because if I try using while not being comfortable with the idea...IT'S THE LACK OF COMFORT THAT WILL SHOW FIRST!!!
Basically what I did was follow my three golden rules and didn't burden myself with anything else as to stay comfortable. Then, I applied them as I got together with this amazing women and things went sooooo well (Atlees I think they did). She even told me that her first impression of me is that "for once" she's not talking to a psycho and that she was "comfortable" hanging with me.
Even managed to apply a little "sexual communication"
We saw this weird looking mushroom cap thingie and we couldn't tell what it was and it went like this:
Me: You wanna know what it is? Go see it! Touch it or something...
Her: No way! YOU touch it!
Me: No! YOU touch it!
Her: No! YOU touch it!
Me: No! YOU touch it!
Both: *Laughter*
See what I mean?
Basically to summerize, this is my first success and is probably the first time in my entire life I established a meeting and date with a wonderful women and DIDN'T SCREW UP MORBIDLY. she really wants to keep in touch with me...But I already know though that I need to not attach too much meaning into it or to not freak out if it doesn't work but still...You have NO idea how hopeless I was before earlier today. And it was all thanks to my trick of shaving down the dating material to just a few key things in relevance to what I NEEDED to use...And leave the rest.
I actually GOT a number from a girl I actually got along with like GOLD!! I dunno, I guess it's because I recently got "fed up" and decided to try stuff and started reading the DJ bible (Not far...only at like, page 16) and whatever else I can do to start fixing my inability to speak to women. But anyways...The book asks that I describ my success and how it went or whatever so hear goes...
I met her on PlentyOfFish.com and we made plans to meet eachother in town. Now what I had running through my head was to avoid making a mistake that I made every other time I tried communicating with a women and it was...
EVERYTHING!!
Basically, after watching things like "DoubleYourDating" and getting started on reading this DJ book thing, I didn't really learn much use from any of the advice...BUT, it's not because it wasn't working. You see, I quickly had the theory in my mind after getting into this stuff based on one predictable mistake that made me screw up in every way possible and it's this...
The material from all the advice and dating help stuff I've been getting into was WAY TOO MUCH to remember. It felt like I was going to war with a handgun but trying to stuff it with huge tank missles as my ammo. Or like a clown juggling 100 diamond chainsaws...etc There's far too much material. Now I get that it's good stuff and that it eventually works, I don't want to discredit the material itself. But what was happening is that I was being overwhelmed with all of it and didn't know where to start. So rather than try to remember it all and review it. All I did was summerize only the material I figured was "best for me" and literally brought it down to three easy to remember rules, and they were...
1. Don't be a goof!
As in...My jokes use to be REALLY lame. And I saw ****y Comedy a while back and learned that being a goof is a top fail. But the best part was that I didn't need to be ****y or remind myself to be...See what I mean by remembering TOO MUCH? All I did was not be a "goof" and let the rest fall into place by itself.
2. THINK before talking!
...I'm in no rush! This is my worst one...I always talk like I'm in a hurry, but lately I've been working to control it.
3. Comfort over material!
If I wasn't comfortable being a certain way or saying something then I wouldn't apply it. Now I know you guys are probably thinking (no duhhh!) but to have SEEN it work in real life makes all the difference. There are soooo many things and "ways of thinking" that I learned from all the material I was watching and reading...But it was NOT using it that made things work for me. Because in the past, if I tried using it...It would fail really fast. Not because the material is bad, but because if I try using while not being comfortable with the idea...IT'S THE LACK OF COMFORT THAT WILL SHOW FIRST!!!
Basically what I did was follow my three golden rules and didn't burden myself with anything else as to stay comfortable. Then, I applied them as I got together with this amazing women and things went sooooo well (Atlees I think they did). She even told me that her first impression of me is that "for once" she's not talking to a psycho and that she was "comfortable" hanging with me.
Even managed to apply a little "sexual communication"
We saw this weird looking mushroom cap thingie and we couldn't tell what it was and it went like this:
Me: You wanna know what it is? Go see it! Touch it or something...
Her: No way! YOU touch it!
Me: No! YOU touch it!
Her: No! YOU touch it!
Me: No! YOU touch it!
Both: *Laughter*
See what I mean?
Basically to summerize, this is my first success and is probably the first time in my entire life I established a meeting and date with a wonderful women and DIDN'T SCREW UP MORBIDLY. she really wants to keep in touch with me...But I already know though that I need to not attach too much meaning into it or to not freak out if it doesn't work but still...You have NO idea how hopeless I was before earlier today. And it was all thanks to my trick of shaving down the dating material to just a few key things in relevance to what I NEEDED to use...And leave the rest.
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