"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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olfactory words...

XANEUS

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I know most of the time, you don't focus on smell, but this girl seems to associate with smells quite a bit...

for visual there is ,,, see, clear, visualize, picture etc...

for auditory there is ,,, hear, ring, sound, listen etc...

for smell there is ,,,, smell, .... ???????
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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scent, aroma, essence are all good ones.

But I'd have to wonder about a chick whose main perception is based on smell. Good luck getting her to swallow.
 

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hahaha... not her main mode of perception... she just mentions it a lot, so I thought it wouldn't hurt to include it from time to time.
 
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