"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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whitedragon

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ah here we go, older women are very nice and attractive, smarter and they know what they want.

im just pumped, i got a date tmw and just five minutes ago, just hooked up with self employed business women, so quick and easy.

im 28 she is 41 and 44, fellas, do not underestimate older women, they can amaze you in all aspects, especially in bed, for once in my life, i was 'tired' to keep up with her sexual antics. lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One of my f*ckbuddies is 7 years older than me. Tall, lean, with almost perfect skin and really really cute... and absolutely loves sex. In my top 5 of best f*ck partners.
 

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My best sex has been with 30somethings.

Older women are more mature psychologically and spiritually...they can enjoy sex for the experience it is instead of being worried about all the little petty things that come with it at a young age.

It's almost BETTER to be in an LTR with a younger girl, because you get time to "cut her strings" as a friend of mine said on another forum...you'll reach a point where you can have that kind of fulfilling sex without all the rules and boundaries that people affix to it.

Older women already have their "strings cut" in many cases...or they're looking to be released from them and it doesn't take much. :D

Still...40 is getting old for me, unless she's really hot for her age.
 

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Don't Forget Your Dream

Older woman are great for developing your game and have potential if you find the right one but....

Don't forget your dream. For me its approaching, closing, and scoring younger 8.0-9.0+s. Younger for me means 25-30 professional, stable, hot women, but you can adjust your goal to whatever your level or interest. Who is your dream? Get a mental picture of her physically, emotionally, and mentally. Now go find her, approach her, and close her.

I need to follow this advice as settling for older women is making me too complacent in what I really want in a woman. I have scored over a half dozen older women in the past few months that provided me little challenge but sharpened my DJ skills. It feels great to get the attention and decent sex, but I know that the potential for growth of my interest in these women is limited. Some have more appeal so I know I won't get bored too soon, but others are just a decaying curve of interest for me. Quantity is not the best substitute for quality, but it is better than nothing at all. You should avoid taking the easiest path as your only path.

You need to keep your edge to be effective, period. Older women provide a good start in getting you an edge, but the real challenging women (the one's you really want whether its a 9.0 HB or a LTR) give you the most potential to be really satisfied. Food for thought. Bon appetit.
 

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My largest stretch has been 17 years. I pretty sure that it increases their sexual 'turn on' by being with a younger guy. Heaven knows that they can be as vocal as younger women. ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're 37, and banging 54 year olds? I knew I didn't like this guy.....:down:
 
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