“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kdnash82 said:
I've dated older women. I've dated younger women. What are some pro's and con's to both?
That's just it. There really are no pro's.

Women don't really "grow up".
They don't become much better at sex.
You can't mold them as easily.
I don't care HOW hot they are....they can't compare to a younger woman of the same caliber.

Younger chicks RULE.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well, I'm not old, so I guess until I become old, I will enjoy the best of both worlds. Guess I'll be the one breaking the rules and exceptions and have my cake and eat it too with both the older women and younger women.

As far as the poster goes. I suggest you do the same. Enjoy the best of both worlds.
 

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kdnash82 said:
Well, I'm not old, so I guess until I become old, I will enjoy the best of both worlds. Guess I'll be the one breaking the rules and exceptions and have my cake and eat it too with both the older women and younger women.

As far as the poster goes. I suggest you do the same. Enjoy the best of both worlds.
I date older women - for the most part they do not mature, they just get older and bitter and more crazy and more panicked about their appearance. Most of them STILL have the "I am a princess and a prize " mentality in spite fact that their tits look like two small cantaloupes practising bungee jumping.

Look at the sheer number of 40- 50 year old's on the dating sites talking crap about wanting " MR Right" ..
 

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Sinistar said:
Plus it's an obvious buffer towards avoiding rejection.

Older women hardly reject younger men, eh? You might wanna read a past post of mine, if you haven't. Older women(40's) are just as difficult to nab as younger women are. Espi has even stated the same in here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1176055#post1176055 When I hear you guys say that older women are easier, I laugh..because the fact is, they are no different than your 20 something year old chick, they require GAME and observe for the same things(such as proof that other chix out there want you) just like younger chix do, and if you don't have it, you're history.
 
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Edger, you know little!!

Because women are made from a cannister of fat and have little muscle - then the older they get the less physical appeal they have to men -- this is a fact!!! For the most part, bitterness is the by-product of what they sowed in their years of horing!!

On the mental side -- if they are not married in their physical prime (teenage years to early twenties) then this tells you that something is wrong!!! Why Not?? Why aren't they married - even hors want to be married!! Many djs and afcs will marry her!

But she is not married?? What does this tell you? Can anybody say, she falls outside The Natural Order Of Things!!! Her femininity is lacking!


jophil28 said:
I date older women - for the most part they do not mature, they just get older and bitter and more crazy and more panicked about their appearance. Most of them STILL have the "I am a princess and a prize " mentality in spite fact that their tits look like two small cantaloupes practising bungee jumping.

Look at the sheer number of 40- 50 year old's on the dating sites talking crap about wanting " MR Right" ..
Bitter describes them best -- serves them right for being a hor for all of their lives!!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've done the 'Older Woman' threads to death on this forum, but since I'm in a writing mood today, I'll bite.

I've tapped my share of older women when I was in my 20s and I can tell you that the sex was no more or less extrordinary than the younger women I've been with. The only major difference? I never had to worry about 22 y.o. single girls finding a babysitter for a night or had to be concerned with making too much noise during sex so as not to wake up her son in the next room. Nor was I concerned about it being "her weekend" to have the kids. If the common belief is that older women encourage an idea that they are more sexually available, you've got to ask yourself, why would they be motivted to be more so at 35 than 25?

Don't get me wrong, there are many attractive women in their 30s & 40s but these are uncommon exceptions to the rule. The social reinforcement of the "older woman" fantasy is just a modern extension of the "she's still got it" social convention with the latent purpose of leveling the playing field for 30-40 something women unable to sexually compete for the same calibre men with 18-28 y.o. women.

Women's sexual value naturally declines as they age - it serves an older woman's purpose if she can redefine sexuality as her conditions change through life, and convince society that she's correct and genuine. Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore may epitomize this fantasy, but in reality, there are thousands of women filling gyms across the country for every Demi Moore convinced that they "still got it" while every year a new crop of 22-24 y.o. hotties commands the attention of the same men they're competing for. This is just the natural extension of the 'Have It All" lie that women have been sold for the last 50 years.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Don't get me wrong, there are many attractive women in their 30s & 40s but these are uncommon exceptions to the rule.
Yeah, it's not the exception to the rule in my neck of the woods, that's for sure. PlasticSurgeon has testified to that too.

I was also in Chicago this weekend, and man the MILF's, GODDAMMMMMMM were they hot. My buddy was even like "holy sh*t!" This was down by the Navy Pier..even by Wrigley Field too. Even at Chicago's O'Hare International Airport they were hot. From what I've seen, I will say more than half of the older women population is HOT(if not, then at least half).
 

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If a woman wants marriage then what she values in a guy changes, she wants stability and personality. If she wants sex then she wants looks and excitement.

It doesn't matter what age she is. There are plenty of divorced women that act like teenage girls because they've had the stability and now they're looking for sex. Just as there are plenty of teenage/early twenties girls who want marriage and therefore want stability.

However the rule is normally that the older she is the more likely she wants stability and marriage.
 
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