Older women not as desirable, but if they work out?

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

bigneil

Banned

Mar 18, 2017

ThisNThat said:
I have seen cases where some women, if they are of a certain nationality or part...something...they look young for their age. They tend to brag about how they are always CARDED at night clubs or bars/restaurants. I'm like "get over yourself!" I know of a woman that's approaching 50 and tends to post on FB instances where she gets "carded".

I get carded too, and I say "Wow, the police must be really tough around here if you have to humor me this way".

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.