"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Was at the club last night and met an older woman that was 32. We had a good time and I got her number...then it seem like I really turned her off when I said I was 24. 30 mins later I went back to where she was and it seem like she didn't care about my age and we start heavy touching and talking. She told me I better call her and what not.

Here is the strange part. She ask for my age again and got turn off again. She told me I should leave her and I was too young...WTF!!! I ignored her and start talking to her friends since my friend was playing the wingman part. She grabbed me and I dance with her for one song then I just left because I figured she is too drunk to remember sh!t.

Here is my question. Should I still call and how should I go about it? I never tried to hook up with a older chick. Since I live in Japan...and Japanese girl that speak great English is rare.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude...coming from a guy whos hooked up with mutliple COUGARS they are only saying "youre too young" because they WANT tohook up with you...you blew it by not spittin the right game. id call her because, fúck it, youll never see her again a chance is a chance
 
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pua1989 said:
dude...coming from a guy whos hooked up with mutliple COUGARS they are only saying "youre too young" because they WANT tohook up with you...you blew it by not spittin the right game. id call her because, fúck it, youll never see her again a chance is a chance
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This.

You should have said something like:

"Oh you're so boring, I'm going back to my friends now" (in a playful way), and started to walk off. She wanted you, so she would have pulled you back.

You should have let her see you talking and having fun with other women, if you could isolate and kiss one of her friends, that's even better.
 
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yeah, I didn't really give up. She left while I was looking for my friends and I really didn't care since I already got her number. She was telling me I was too young while her hands and eyes were telling me something different. I'm going to call anyway since I have nothing to lose. I really want to have a cougar under my belt.
 
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all milfs are f***ked up in their heads emotional baggage that wouldn't fit on baggage for a 747....


The younger ones look sooooooo much hotter....why milfs? No body else wants them except the counter groceries or mcdonalds burger flipping teenagers.

My **** is only good enough for prime Grade A , tight ass. No matter how long it takes to get there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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update*

I set up a coffee date at starbucks, been over a year since I had my last date. Time to end this drought and get back into the game after my last break up. Any do's or don'ts dealing with cougars? Hopefully I can ask her to come back to my place after coffee.
 
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