"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jakeyboy

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HOLY S**T SHE'S HOT!

alright. so i met this really sweet chick. only problem is, she's my teacher !!! don't faint guys ou there, i still need advice from yall.

anyways,(shes 28) she couldnt stand teaching in the school i was in so she broke off her contract with the school and moved on. so i made my move on her, we dated for abit and then i kissed her at the precise right time as told me by the excellent articles in the DJ site.

the point is, there's nothing special about me really, i'm just a regular 18 year old joe, so i'm going to reveal to you the secret of getting that older chick you've got your eye on. even if shes out of your league!

alright this is important, if you want your romantic interest to be known right away, you've got to show it. be it in your words or actions. but im sure you already know that, so ill get to the more important stuff...

doing this made me lose the girl of my dreams. so i have to warn you guys out there never to commit this henious crime. ever! ok, older women are more independent right, the reaso why so many of us DJs out there go for women is because they know how to take care of themselves! they dress to kill, treat themselves to massages and facials, how many young girls out there do that???

so being an older woman dating a younger man, you got to realize she'll take you for granted at some point in time, with her mentality of im so hot, i can get any man that i desire.

the trick is, you've got to keep her on a string. let her know who's the boss in the relationship regardless of age. so dont be a whiny wuss and call her day and night just because she didnt pick up the phone. a younger girl will definitely appreciate this, but an older lady will be less than happy to receive your calls.
she'll just think you have nothing better to do. dont ever let her know that. always seem busy, like you've got a drive in life! and she will soon be much more attracted to you.. older women go for ambition!

don't ever tell her you love her either. she'll just think you're a puny guy, make HER tell you she loves you. you must always seem like a normal friend, when you talk to her, (smile alot) but still subtly show your interest in her. she'll be wondering why you havent made your move on her yet. and boy, she'll be thinking of you!!!

another tip for reeling in that older chick, tease her.

oh yes. she's used to getting what she wants. especially if you're ten years younger than her, she thinks she can get anything out of you. so when she wants something, like les say, oral sex? this is when the ball's in your court dudes! ask her what you're gonna get in return, strike a bargain, and soon she'll know that you're not so easily stepped on and she'll treasure what she has with you more.

oh and older women do appreciate good food, so dont bring her where you normally would a younger girl. bring her somewhere classy, with a jazz band and some good coffee and she'll love you for being so thoughtful :) and also you have to dress sharp, most older women dont like teeshirts with large colorful motifs on their men. (it makes them seem immature you see) wear collared shirts, polo shirts, khakis, and please, sandals are for jesus only. wear nice casual brown shoes with ankle socks. (timberland has nice pairs) and of course, dont forget the cologne. i personally like sentiment by escada, my girl loved it. i strongly recommend it its a very mature fresh classy frangrance thats not too strong.

so a lot of teasing can go a long way with the older woman. sex with an obsessed older woman can be wild -winks- good luck to you guys out there!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ_Dork

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to make this short , all you have to do is follow the rules of the DJ....
 

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what is she's 34 and you are 24? same rules apply?
 

jakeyboy

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hey... the rules still apply if you're having an age difference of 10... just that you gotta follow the fashion sense of your times, perhaps, match it in cohesion with hers... so that you look fashionably young, yet not as old as you really are! whats the deal with the girl anyway? has she shown signs of interest in you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jay-X

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and on the internet?

here in italy, you are dreamin if you hope that a 28 yr old will fall for you, they just get the older ones. the only hope is to know her on the internet, in this case you can lay her. how would you apply your advices on chat-lines?
 

jakeyboy

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here in italy, you are dreamin if you hope that a 28 yr old will fall for you, they just get the older ones. the only hope is to know her on the internet, in this case you can lay her. how would you apply your advices on chat-lines?

ok... here's what i know... see if you find it useful.. if it were me, speaking from a personal point of view, if i were mackin a girl on a chatline, and she was older, you should read the article "empowering your voice" by Mr Fingaz.

the main concept is to make your voice sound as masculine as possible, with a rich sultry sound and since you're going to be talking to her on a paid system (the chatline), i suggest you keep all conversations romantic, no idle chit chat. ask her many open ended questions, somehow this really works because she thinks you really are interested in her and her interest level will rise... but she doesn't have to know you're yawning at the other end of the line!

check out david copeland's site, you can go to sosuave and get redirected there, just scroll down. there's a bunch of stuff there on how to conduct a romantic convo... al the best dude!
 
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