Older woman at supermarket.

[DoItAgain]

There's a woman, probably anywhere from mid 20s to early 30s, that works as a supervisor at a nearby supermarket and I'm not sure how to open her. If it were a cashier, there are a number of things you could do and easily use indirect game, but this would/will involve me walking up to her, initating eye contact, and basically putting on a one-man show.

We all know the "Do you want to go out for coffee?" thing doesn't work with hired guns, especially if no rapport has been developed. What I"m thinking is somehow playing the band angle. That way it's "Oh nice looking guy invited me to see his local band play on the weekend"...but even then, doesn't there need to be some kind of lead-in and small talk or else she's thinking "Why is he inviting me of all people to see his band?"

Also, this isn't a one-it-is situation. In my location, these are the kind of approaches you have to make if you want a cute woman. The rest either are taken by guys in their social circles (which are tighter than a virgin's p****) or are nowhere to be found. If she rejects my advances, I'm not the type to go home and mope. I'm just looking for a local lay, not looking to make her my wife.

 

[jophil28]

Lucky you asked - I have done some field reseach in this particular area of meeting women.
"Supermarket game " is the game.

You need to build attraction and rapport with her over a few weeks before you go for the #. She is working, and therefore well aware of those overhead cameras, so she will be a little guarded.

Well crafted C&F is the desireable tactic .

Here is a guaranteed opener ( it's lame and a tad AFC, but it achieves it's purpose ).

Casually walk up to her and check out her name badge..

You," So is Jacinta your real name or your 'stage' name?"

She, (giggles or looks perplexed) " It's my real name."

You, " Nice name - I notice that you work here a lot. So I guess that you're working here until that movie offer comes through ?"

By now she is all smiles -and slightly blushing.

She, " Wow, I wish . That would be cool.."

You ," Let me make a few calls and see what I can do. "

You just smile and walk off.

IF you are a regular shopper , watch her reaction in a few days when you see her again. Escalate the chat each visit until you know that the time is right to number close.

 

[Zarky]

Don't hit on women where they work. Leave 'em alone, they just want to do their job and go home.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Don't try any goofy lines. Just chat her up a few times. Don't go in with any thing planned, just say something about the situation, ask for where something is , (and say thanks, (name).) give her two or three interactions over as many weeks. Make each one a bit longer. No more than a minute or so.

Then stop fukking around and ask her out, and allow her to say yes or no.

"Hey, you seem pretty nice. I'd like to get to know you a little bit more when you're not working. How about a cup of coffee or at xyz shop tomorrow at three?" or whatever.


If she says no, she says no. Smile, say thanks anyway, and go hunt someplace else.


no big deal.