"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Older Woman Advice???

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whowy04

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I'm 23 and I just started dating a 25 year old; I believe she's starting to feel a bit more settled. From what she's told me, she's had plenty of relationships that didn't work out and experiences that one would be content with approaching settling down. Thus, I think she's looking for a more serious relationship, BUT I truely don't know for sure.

Are there any signs or anything I can look for in her to prove what she truely wants out of this relationship?

Do you think she places as much importance on confidence then a woman....say my age?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes, don't change just because she's 2 years older than you. i'm 22 and just got done dating a 25yr old... the same c/f works on women universally.
 
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Thanks for the tip man. I assumed c/f meant confidence.

So, how did the relationship turn out?

Could you tell early on what she wanted or was looking for in you?


I'm just trying to gauge this relationship early before I get caught up in it and get hurt.

Thanks again!
 
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