"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So my neighbor is like in her 40's I'd say. Today I was leaving my friends house and she called me over to talk. When I normally talk to her which is rare that I do she is distant and relaxed. Today she made me hug her and stay to talk for a bit and I was just like well this is weird...I've been in her house to help her before and what not but idk today I felt she was giving me some signals. The fact that I'm starting college soon and I'm almost 18 might be a reason for her to show interest in me I guess I'm not really sure but lately I've been talking to a lot of 30 year olds and what not. Girls on the older side 25-30's seem to have a thing for me as of late.

Just thought of what you guys would make out of this situation. She isn't bad looking shes really skinny only a little acne on her face but her teeth are like on the bad side. I'm just looking to lose my V-card which is why I'm bringing this up. What would you do if it came down to a situation happening would you just be like fu^k it and just go for it or just leave it alone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're better then that. I'd say find a hottie whos 18-25 and go with her. You'll be surrounded by way better looking girls who want it just as much (well, some of them will want it just as much.) once you're in college.
 

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Yeaa your right. I assume girls in college have more class anyways at least I hope so. I have to travel an at least 2 hours to even see decent girls. Where I live its mostly ghetto girls.
 
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I think those ladies are older their age is more 35 or more years. My age is 25 years .
 

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Like everytime I go out I approach a few women a day and majority of the time they are in their 25 to 30's and they say how I make them feel old. I'm going to be 18 in a few months but they seem uncomfortable around me. I read their body language a lot and its not that I'm like scary looking its just their insecure about themselves. Like when I first started approaching women I kinda expected them to shove me off because they get approached like 100 times a day but thats not the case. A lot of the time they seem off guard and very surprised a guy came up to them even the Hb8+s.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Like everytime I go out I approach a few women a day and majority of the time they are in their 25 to 30's and they say how I make them feel old. I'm going to be 18 in a few months but they seem uncomfortable around me. I read their body language a lot and its not that I'm like scary looking its just their insecure about themselves. Like when I first started approaching women I kinda expected them to shove me off because they get approached like 100 times a day but thats not the case. A lot of the time they seem off guard and very surprised a guy came up to them even the Hb8+s.
 
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