"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vercingetorix777

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Basically my question is does a junior undergrad student have much of a chance with a graduate student. I think she's only a first year one. I met her today in my Medieval Europe class. This was after mentioning that I too plan to become a Medievalist History Professor. I'm sure she's impressed with my knowledge of the period as it is evidenced by actions in class. Thing is I'm not attracted to that many girls and it's so rare to find one that's really smart and has a passion for history. This girl is very friendly and looks nice too. She was telling me about good schools to apply to and is going to give me a useful website next class.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Depends, are you a DJ or not?
 

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My question was the first line of the post. Maybe it would have helped you if I'd taken the time to paste a question mark. And how the Hell is that DJ comment going to help me.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by Vercingetorix777
My question was the first line of the post. Maybe it would have helped you if I'd taken the time to paste a question mark. And how the Hell is that DJ comment going to help me.
Probably won't work out....to well. Imagine if you do go out. In a couple of years she's done and out working, you're still finishing your undergrad.

From experience these types of girls generally go for the working man, or even the professor! :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fenderules

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if you have done your research you would no that age gaps are trivial. DONT CARE ABOUT IT


it does not matter go for it





end of thread........moderator plz close
 

duke007

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Sh1t man you think too much. Just read mine and Centaurion's field reports about older women for some inspiration. Eggchen is with an older woman too.

It's only an issue if you make it one.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Fenderules
if you have done your research you would no that age gaps are trivial. DONT CARE ABOUT IT


it does not matter go for it





end of thread........moderator plz close
'nuff said...
 

Centaurion

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Originally posted by Vercingetorix777
Are they in the Bible? ill do a site search
No, they're not in the bible. They're in the discussion forum.

Im currently seing a 32 year old women, considering that im 20, i think thats pretty nice. Anyways, you just gotto be able to be more mature than your regular 20year old frat-boy. It's not that hard to pull off. I'd say that you definatly should go for it. Who cares where she is in 2 years!? It's the PRESENT that counts!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Centaurion

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Originally posted by duke007

It's only an issue if you make it one.
SO TRUE!!!!!
 
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