"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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iCanDoThat

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whats up, this is my first post although i have been reading this website for a long time. I am 16 and have no problem pulling very fine girls my age.(like HB 8 and 9s) I am in a situation were i am in college, with plenty of babes. I have started talking to some girls that are 17 and 18 and want to hook up with them. i can pull girls all day long that are my age and way finer than these college girls. i just wanted to do it for the experience with older chicks and for the fun of pulling older girls. (plus i have the amazing opportunity to talk to hundres of chicks, and want to take advantage) i know it will be hard considerin i rarely see girls with younger guys.
I was wondering if anyone has any tips or anything that could help me with older chicks.

ps. i dont wanna lie about my age cuz thats just...gay.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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redCobra1

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first things first...you should let your AGE stop you from enjoying an older woman. I have dated plenty of girls much older than I am..If you do things right and lay it on thick with the confidence and comedy... your age will not matter to her.
 

Patrick124

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age means nothing when you are a don juan brother.
I am 16, most say i liie about 14-16. But i still pull 17yrold chicks more-often than gilrs my age.
 

Yuriy777

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age doesn't matter.
last year when i was in high school (17)
i pulled a brunett bombshell (a universal 9.5+)
she was 20 i was 17
now that is much harder than being 16 and pullin 17-18 even 19
trust me
it can be done and it's easier than you think.
 

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The only things that mess up your game are your self-limiting beliefs. When age comes up just casually say "I am 16" if she says your too young say "You're too old but Im willing to make an exception"

Animal
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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iCanDoThat

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thanks for the replys. i am glad to see that there are guys gettin older girls. now i know its not impossible, lol. Im just curious if you guys who go for older chicks do anything different. I am no way intimidaded by older girls, so i pretty much just do everything that i would normally do to anyother girl. just make them laugh because thats my best weapon, lol. and since they know that im younger they get very supprised when i pick on them because they know it takes balls, and they realize that im not intimidated by them.
if anybody wants to post anymore tips that would be greatly appreciated.
and by the way, i travel across they country faily alot. and i still have never found a place with more hott chicks then texas, or cali. it might be suprising, but yes texas. i just felt like telling anyone who might care. next time you wanna take a vacation try dallas. i live about 2 hours away and enjoy going there alot. lol

thanx again, peace
 

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When you are going for older chicks make sure they are on their own otherwise you won't have much chance due to social constraints("Hes younger and I'll look like a slut blah blah blah whatever the girl thinks, it don't matter:D). When you approach just do your usual stuff C&F, neg hits whatever your usual stuff is and sound really mature. IF the subject of age comes up either say something like
a) "Im 14" after a while say your kidding and say you are 16 this way it seems better than just saying your 16 why? Just imagine someone says "Oh that house costs $1 million" and then says "just kidding its $1/2 million" or someone straight out saying its $1/2 million. You automatically think 14 years old/$1 million thats bad and then when they change it you think 16/ $1/2 million isn't bad compared to the first thing.
b) "I'm 4 but I look very mature"/"Im 100 but have very good skincare products" any C&F comment
c)Just outright give her your age and if she says your too young say you're too old but Ill make an exception turning your age problem into her age problem. Remember don't qualify to her make her qualify to you

If you must approach a group of people with your target in then make sure you look and act mature and basically use MM which just means ignore the target, make everyone else think your cool, don't hit on anyone(especially not the guys:))and then give your target 3 neg hits. If everyone thinks you're cool then social programming won't affect her so much because everyone is cool with you.

You could just head straight for the target in the group direct and hope for the best but I find that quite hard and the results are not worth the time as opposed to single girls. This is from experience I have been out with several girls in the 16-18 age group and I am currently 15. If anyone has better alternatives then it would be great to hear because older girls is one aspect of my game I would like to improve upon.

Hope I helped,
Animal.
 

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LMAO! Ok, i am not just lying to sound cool... but i actually did what you(alpha_animal) told me to BEFORE i read your post. man we think alike! Alright, yesterday i was at an outdoor college fundrasing concert at the city park, and their was a group of college girls (i recognized their faces) working there by passing out food. well i went to go get some food from them and one of them made a comment on the music i was listening to in my car. blah blah blah... "yes i go to the college" ...blah blah blah... then one of the better looking ones ask how old i am, so i say im twelve, their eyes get big and their like really? so i say "yea i am just really big for my age". then they were like whoa! so then i tell them "no im just kiddin, im 16" i dont really remember much after that for some reason. i guess cuz i went to go eat my food or something, but that was pretty wild that we think alike,LOL.

i do like the one about being 100, i am deffinetly gonna use that one alot. well that helps alot to know that im on the right track. and by they way, ive already got one college girl calling me everyday, so thats good. anyways thanks again

peace
 
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