"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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miked

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hi guys
this is my 1st post so be gentle:D

anyways met a hot milf last week, shes 40 and im 27. we made out in the club but her friends dragged her away before i could escalate.
i got her number and texted her, we've been going back and forth trying to set up a date but now she hasnt returned my message. she kept telling me i was too young for her but continued to kiss me.

anyway i can salvage this ?

in b4 oneitis:cry:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JCRoberts

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miked said:
hi guys
this is my 1st post so be gentle:D

anyways met a hot milf last week, shes 40 and im 27. we made out in the club but her friends dragged her away before i could escalate.
i got her number and texted her, we've been going back and forth trying to set up a date but now she hasnt returned my message. she kept telling me i was too young for her but continued to kiss me.

anyway i can salvage this ?

in b4 oneitis:cry:
That you are already in the field making out with milfs is a good thing. It's better to set up a hang-out by phone. Milfs will generally have lines and tests that you are too young for them. I simply ignore these futile tests.

Wait a few days. If she hasn't text'd you back, call her in the evening, when she is most likely to be at home relaxing. Next time, try to frame the courtship as her wanting to chase you. It's possible to still turn it around, granted she texts back or answers your call.

Remember that staying in the field is a good prescription to prevent one-itis. Keep getting better and you'll be more powerful than you can ever imagine... You're off to a good start.

JC
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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You were her play thing for a night to make her feel better about herself. Leave it alone and move on to a new girl.
 
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