"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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older chic but barely

she barely older like 8 years and i want to get at her we just talk on the computer i ahve her number called once did not talk long...............but she is a gemini..now i dont believe in that zodiac crap but the persons that do try to act like they are suppossed to. she seems real defensive and cautious but i want her bad as hell and i will hang around awhile if i got to.

she tells me her last boyfriend was cheating and treated her like trashand all this and that............what i have to do is find a way to break her gaurd so i can get in but how? let me remind you this is an older women she 29 years old.............i dont thinkshe is subseptible to my college girl tricks....but then again.


fellow dj's we have to stick together and in this i request your help and dj powers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There are so many things wrong here, i don't know where to begin....
 
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Handle her like any other chick, if it doesnt work, then it wont no matter if the reasons for failure are age, looks, interests etc.

BTW, my current girl is 5 years older than me, if you wouldnt know that then you wouldnt note the age gap, older women doesnt mean more mature women.
 
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PEOPLE OF SOSUAVE.

Why should we help andari when he asks us.

I have yet to see one valid important discussive post by him.

He is pulling a trick, to use US.

andari, open your mouth for my tool.
 
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Originally posted by darthsidious
PEOPLE OF SOSUAVE.

Why should we help andari when he asks us.

I have yet to see one valid important discussive post by him....
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Maybe because he isn't in a place to contribute anything useful (yet).

Andari, let her see that your age doesn't matter. Have the same conversation you had previously with her but have it in person. Nothing heavy like a dinner date but casual like a coffee date. Preferably in a coffee house with ambiance, not any place like Starbucks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about after he stops posting in tips?


if she really believes in zodiac that is bad news:down:

I would make a run for it
 
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Originally posted by Coolage
if she really believes in zodiac that is bad news:down:

I would make a run for it
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How's that bad news?

Most women believe in that stuff anyway, any guy would be hard pressed to find a woman that didn't.
 
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Originally posted by Coolage
if she really believes in zodiac that is bad news

I would make a run for it
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Haha I agree on that one those biotches are nuts!
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
How's that bad news?

Most women believe in that stuff anyway, any guy would be hard pressed to find a woman that didn't.
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Francisco the average girl will look at that stuff. But a girl who changes her life because of that is a bit scary.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Coolage
Francisco the average girl will look at that stuff. But a girl who changes her life because of that is a bit scary.
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Dude, where do you find these scary women? I've met countless women that completely fit their astrological sign but I've never met any that changed their lives because of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So you never met a girl that tries to date a certain sign or try something on her lucky day for the week?

I guess I am just lucky.
 
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I thought chicks like that were only on TV! I guess my 'flake detector' filters those wackos (whew).
 
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