"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Older bros...Tell me the game isnt like this after 40

Jaylan

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Ive never dated older women, but while Im still in my 20s I wanna give it a shot. So Ive been browsing profiles looking for milfs and happened upon this gal http://www.okcupid.com/profile/dee-deeinabox

I had to laugh at the height and weight requirement I found. I expect that from younger chicks, but not from a single mom her age, living with her parents, and only has one picture up. And even in that one blurry picture she doesnt look like a hotty who can be calling the shots.

So older bros (lets say over 35), tell me numerous women dont carry a sense on entitlement well into their 30s and 40s, despite having kids and more life experience. Because I think there is a good chance I may still not be married at that age....and lord knows I wont put up with that ish.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mike32ct

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Older women are still pretty picky. There is this myth that only young club chicks are picky and entitled.

Their looks standards MIGHT be slightly lowered (sometimes), but they maintain their height standards AND ADD income standards*.

So the entitlement doesn't really go away.

*This can be waived for a hot young guy.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Older women are still pretty picky. There is this myth that only young club chicks are picky and entitled.

Their looks standards MIGHT be slightly lowered (sometimes), but they maintain their height standards AND ADD income standards*.

So the entitlement doesn't really go away.

*This can be waived for a hot young guy.
Definitely agree with income standards. If you're going for a hot 40 year old, you'd better have at least 1 mil in the bank or else she won't look at you. There are some cougars who want boy toys, but that can end badly.
 

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Huh?

Unless she's preparing meals, buying you clothes, and most importantly, BREAKING BREAD! Why are you wasting your time on chicks that are fifteen, sixteen, or seventeen years your senior? How would benefit you and improve your quality of life?
 

Jaylan

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Maximus Rex said:
Unless she's preparing meals, buying you clothes, and most importantly, BREAKING BREAD! Why are you wasting your time on chicks that are fifteen, sixteen, or seventeen years your senior? How would benefit you and improve your quality of life?
Its about the experience dude. Plenty of young cats like to try the MILF experience. Either way, dating experience is dating experience.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Height has never stopped me I am 5'10 and to be honest I usually see shorter dudes with the cuter girls.
 
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