"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Epicurus

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A Mans Greatest Asset [OLD]

Nathalie Thompson states “If you have a dream in your heart, the only way to turn it into a reality is to be a little different. If you want something in your life to change, then you have to change the way you approach it – you have to think a little differently, act a little differently, and just BE a little differently.

If you keep doing and thinking what everyone else does, then you’re going to continue getting what everyone else has. What’s worse, by trying to be like someone else you’re denying the reality of, and the gift that is, who you really are.”


Some parts of that are a little cheesy - okay maybe more than just some parts; others are absolute gold. The biggest key to success in OLD is to just BE different. Never ask the dreaded ‘what are you looking for’ or any variation of. Stay away from complimenting her and how beautiful she is. Refrain from sounding like a thirsty slob at all times. Have a great yet funny bio this is a major key. Hold actual conversations with these women but keep it light and fun. Build some rapport and after about 15 messages suggest a date. I would highly recommend trying to schedule something for the day, brunch, coffee or a picnic. Keep it cheap, keep it close by and keep it short.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Murk

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NEVER schedule a coffee or brunch date. Strictly drinks after work or evening on a weekend. Then again I'm in the business of fvcking women not collecting pen pals.

Seriously, a picnic?
 
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