"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Old Tampon Turning Things Around

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^ Doesn't that seem like a newspaper headline or something? Business section?

Anyway,
Back in my pre-DJ days, there was a girl I was a major AFC with. I was the emotional tampon, blah blah. Well now that those days are long gone, she suddenly has turned the tables around... I'm getting the impression she wants me. Bad.

I mean, I was a pretty major AFC to her. Are there any reported cases of this happening to you guys? I want to know if I should bother..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL @ you calling yourself a tamp0n.

In anycase dude since you are young you can go ahead and go for her for experience sake but in the future if you are ever in hard times and revert to AFC status and some chick doesn't dig you but then you get back on your feet and go DJ again and she's suddenly all over you thats a low quality woman for your life as she didn't like you in your lowest moment which shows she won't be there for you in your relationship when it counts.

A girl like this is only there when its good for her as she is only in love with the good moments and not the totality of who you are.

Disregard the above advice though if there is a new chick in addition to her that you've met since becoming a DJ that wants you just as bad.

Instead forget the old chick and go for the new one since being involved with a chick who knew you when you were an AFC and rejected you can cause you to revert to your old AFC mindset or start to see you in that light and not fully acknowledge you as the DJ that you now are weakening your new life and beliefs and weakening you as a man.
 
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Yea, some girls like guys that just sit there and listen to what they say while you stutter out some incomprehensible words. And she thought you were so sweeeeeet and cute right?
 
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bro go for it and tap that ass, just whatever you do you must not show any emotion that you might have towards her, cause once she thinks she has you she will lose all interest. basically, be a little cold and aloof towards her , and it will help keep her interest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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