old plates

[Bingo-Player]

i don't know about the rest of you but i still got plates contacting me from about 12 months back

i had little interest when i was banging them and i have even less now but yet these chicks still want more

why ? well because i couldn't give a sh*t about them of course , they think they can change me and love the emotional whirlwind frame i give them

unfortunately i haven't fully learnt how to do this with chicks i am actually interested in yet but thats a WIP and why I'm here

anyway a plate i was seeing roughly about this time last year contacts me the other day after seeing my tweet about me wanting to see the new x-men movie

now bearing in mind this chick has been in a LTR for the last 9 months.....and is still in said LTR

so after favouriting my tweet she messages me saying this

her : "hey I'm really looking forward to seeing that movie too do you when is it out ?"

me : " the end of the month...... but i haven't decided who's gonna have the pleasure of watching it with me yet"

her: " oh i can't wait to see it !! haha have u got anyone in mind ?"

me: " well i know how much you like x-men......"

her: "haha don't think my boyfriend would like the idea of that"

me: " you can bring him too "

her: " he dosent like the x-men"

me: " his loss..... so only the 2 it is seats then ?"

her: " text me the details ...."

LOL :crackup: i havent spoken to this girl for months and yet within a few messages she's agreed to go to the movies with me and will probably end up fu*cking me after it

this proves 2 things

1) women cannot be trusted

2) if you keep your frame strong enough and don't break the plate too badly you can have her any time you like

 

[Dgwizdal]

I always have girls come back around I wouldn't commit to after a period of them hating me and not talking to me. A woman's final card is eject when she cannot betasize you. Hold the frame and shell be back around after getting her emotional validation from the white knights she resents for another ride on the emotional crack roller coaster. A woman will always forgive you for being too much of a jerk leaving the door slightly open in hopes that you will redeem yourself with more commitment potential down the line.

 

[Bingo-Player]

AMEN @dgwizdal

 

[Dgwizdal]

@bingo
how long did you date her out of curiosity?

 

[om1xr]

I always have girls come back around I wouldn't commit to after a period of them hating me and not talking to me. A woman's final card is eject when she cannot betasize you. Hold the frame and shell be back around after getting her emotional validation from the white knights she resents for another ride on the emotional crack roller coaster. A woman will always forgive you for being too much of a jerk leaving the door slightly open in hopes that you will redeem yourself with more commitment potential down the line.

You are spot on. they always come back especially if you are the one who dumped them or when they can't do any better.

OP you must understand that the first thing women care about in their lives is validation. that mean they are always seeking validation from others and that means a lot of drama and emotional roller coasters whenever they encounter a real man who don't give a fvck and who is able to walk away on the sign of the first red flag from her. that's why i think those two last things (walking away and not giving a fvck attitude) is the most important things a man can have when it comes to dealing with women.

another point whenever they come back always ask yourself why it didn't work out in the first place. and don't think that this time you can work it out because people in general don't change except a small percentage.

Don't chase. Erase and replace!