"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Old observation about cell phones

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I recently came back to my east coast college to do some work, and I noticed that little has changed in the female population here (except the UG boots).

Today, I counted 20 women on my walk to work.

Of the 20, 18 had a cell phone pressed to their ear.

Of those 18 exactly ZERO were talking! As I recall, when I lived here, I could easily walk to class every day for a week, see dozens of females with phones, and not see a single one talking.

If any of you are going to college in the DC-Virginia area, I want you to try this out. How many of those young women are ACTUALLY talking as they walk?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My old roommate would do that on her way home from work, only she'd call me, and have a brief, pointless conversation while I continued to play Xbox or whatever. Sometimes she would talk about her day at work, other times she wouldn't say anything. Obviously it's a security thing. Either they feel safe from harm or potential confrontations with strangers.
 

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I don't understand why guys are complaining about this. 99.999999% of all guys don't have the balls to approach whether a woman is talking on the phone or not. These are just troll, woman hating posts by losers who don't have any game and have to vilify women as a result.
 

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girls listen to voice messages too.............

and yea lets lighten up on the girl hating posts, cuz i know for a FACT that there are some really good women out there and hating just makes everyone's AFC problems even worse
 

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I don't understand why guys are complaining about this. 99.999999% of all guys don't have the balls to approach whether a woman is talking on the phone or not.
That's the thing. They are NOT talking on the phone. They aren't pressing buttons to erase voice messages, texting, nada.

I'm not sure I'm complaining, since this doesn't happen where I live now. Just at this one school I'm visiting again. So bizzare.

girls listen to voice messages too.............
Not for 20 minutes straight without pressing a button (when I ride a tram here).

Maybe this place is just some sort of alternate world where every guy has the balls to approach, and women are sick of it! LOL!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Somebody get these bitches some Paxil!

Those chicks have some serious "tissue-issues".

Really, if they were a little more intelligent, they would realize that putting on headphones would not only make them not-obligated to be members of society, but it would be more fun than standing there with a phone on their ears looking like a bunch of psycho phonies.
 
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