"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Old interest keeps checking me out

Elf2

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Couple months ago there was this younger freshman girl I was interested in (i'm a senior). We talked for like a month. Never really truly got to know each other. Never hung out because the day we were supposed to hang out I got an angry call from her 14 year old (now) boyfriend. I know this kid is an AFC. I am better than him in everyway possible. I know this for a fact. Anyway I forgot about the girl because I thought that she thought that I was a creep for whatever reason.

But lately this chick had been looking at me and like staring at me every freaking time I pass her in the halls or I'm just standing chilling after school with friends. I don't get it. I know for this for a fact because 2 of my friends have said something to me about "that girl over there" plus my sister said something to me on a different occasion. Plus plus from the corner of my eye I can see the whites of her eyes and the way her head is tilted looking at me. :confused:

So yea, what the deal? BTW she still has the crappy BF.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kevin Cass

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why would u hook up with a 14 yr old when ur 17..u should get with other 17yr olds man. a 14 year old shouldnt even be on ur mind. shes freshmen man straight off the middle school platter. just ignore her hook up with 17-16yr olds and see her go crazy. just make believe shes a form of entertainment. but if u just want head go ahead
 

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Kevin Cass said:
why would u hook up with a 14 yr old when ur 17..u should get with other 17yr olds man. a 14 year old shouldnt even be on ur mind. shes freshmen man straight off the middle school platter. just ignore her hook up with 17-16yr olds and see her go crazy. just make believe shes a form of entertainment. but if u just want head go ahead
I appreciate the reply but that doesn't necessarily help me.

Her BF is 14 but she is 15 now. They are both freshman. I know I should be getting with older girls.

But I would like to know if this girl CONSTANTLY (every time I see her) looks at me.
 

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Lol. If you would like to know if she looks at you. The next time you see her lookin at you, just go up to her boldly and ask "Are you checking me out or something?". Its easy man... You want to know something? Go find out. Stop asking for help when you dont really need it.
 

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I typically go by the 2 year rule. As long as you're, at most, two years older it's alllll goooooood. :cool:

But I don't really understand why you're posting this. Did you just want to talk about it or are you SERIOUSLY asking us why she's checking you out? She probably thinks you have a horribly disfigured body and she can't help but stare at it. Or she thinks you're attractive. It's either one OR the other.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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