"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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saturos

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For example, there's a girl that i've known for a few years that now i figure i ought to talk to and stuffs, but over the years i haven't said anything to her really and i'm certain she has a (sadly accurate) poor impression of me built up.
So when i first decided to change myself, i told my self "f*ck it" and i would just not talk to the girl. Now i've decided that i might as well. But i don't want to say, tomorrow, act like she's suddenly my best friend or the like, because it would most likely be really, really creepy.
Should i just start off like i hardly know her? Like just hi and the like when i see her?

Gracias. (aside from my game, i need to work on my spanish too >.>)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Huffman

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Of course it would be weird.
Many people will find your "new behaviour" weird. But if you are consequent, they will adjust pretty quickly and either come to like or to hate your new self.
If you really decided to change yourself, you can't have these people hold you back.

You'll hear the sentence "You've changed so much!" alot. In a good way, most of the time!
 
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You have to be in a relaxed almost comical mood to talk to women. Treat her like she is your bratty sister. Make smart ass comments about what she is doing, wearing, or saying. Keep the frame. Laugh a lot and smile. Keep things light. And even if she gets smart with you roll your eyes and make fun of her. Don't be too serious, but always act superior to her. Act kinglike and kind of snobby to her. Have fun man. This whole thing is to have fun.

Today I was acting like this to this 9 hot blond white girl rich etc. She showed me her tramp stamp, ewww! I'm serious. She is hot as hell. But I kept busting her balls and acting like she didn't matter to me. She's into me. I can tell. I have to keep this up, because I have a girlfriend right now, but I'm going to keep her interested until the time is right. Also women like stories. Make up cool and crazy stories that get their emotions going all over the place. I did this to this hot black girl today. She's like a little girl inside, really. She all hot and proper, but when you break her down, she just a little girl in a hot mama's body, who want to be ****ed by a fun guy. Just do it man. You have nothing to lose. Right now, standing still and doing nothing is losing. Trying and even failing is better than that. It's good for you.
 

jeffthechef

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nex titme you see her in the library or sitting on ab ench or by her locker..just go by her and say hi and tell her
"you've seemed so sad since we've stopped talking. How about i take you out and you can tell me all about how much you'ved missed me?"

ehh not that necessarily cause idk if i would use that line..but something funny...don't spend hours thinking..just do it. a simple hi is always a good place to start
 
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