"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Old girls wink at me more often than young girls.

Poonani Maker

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Do you find this to be the case? I had 3 older (35 to 45) wink at me yesterday. One was a federal government worker - I can tell she'd fvck me in a heartbeat. They don't have to worry about losing their jobs being gov't. She's thin, attractive, and sexual, always in a horny/flirty mood when I show up to her office. Always happy to see me and almost always leaves me with her winking at me. She also takes every opportunity to touch my hand (as if to show me something). She's made it known that she's single and that she's trying to get a better position (said that 3 months ago, as of yesterday, she's still working in the same department). She told me to call her by her nickname, Tazz.

Now, younger girls, or girls of this generation, almost NEVER wink at me. Their pvssy is Way too prized to give me the time of day, even LOOK at me, even though they've seen me (while they think I'm not looking), they're interested but they just equate me to all other guys right off the bat, and put me in a position to try to force me to supplicate to them. I don't; therefore, I don't get any of their candy, but at least I NEVER SUPPLICATE. I'll just go find another Older woman, or trashy low-class woman, or fat girl, I'll do whatever it takes to fulfill my sexual needs and desires, but I will NOT EVER SUPPLICATE like her other goon friends. Fvck em.

That being iterated, I've got Nothing in the pvssy realm going on tonight Or tomorrow, just like last week, the week before, and the week the week before. The reason is not because I've not supplicated or lost the frame (with ANY woman I've come into contact with in my travels), it's because of the cold, I believe, and because of back to school, the economy, etc. There just aren't that many I've met recently I'd want to fvck. The hot ones are kind of in hiding in my area. Don't know about yours. I'm just not finding them. Once spring hits, I should be rolling again. I will keep trying up until 3 PM today. I may try until 7 PM, but there's a point where you have to just entertain yourself for the rest of the weekend and not fool with women until the next week. Trying to set something up can be extremely time consuming. All I want them for is their pvssy, nothing more. They can go away after that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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@PoonaniMaker,

Older women will always be more forthright. Their inhibition or fear of social reprimand is minimized by the ticking of the biological clock. Plus it generally takes a woman a while to come into her own - even though girls tend to mature faster it seems like this growth is stunted on a sexual level. Just ask the 33% of all women who haven't had an orgasm. Most of them are young chicks who have yet to unravel their own mysteries and attain sexual confidence. Guys will always be light years ahead on that level. Try to find ONE guy who has never *** before.

@BBardot,

I dont see what's so sad about it. The OP clearly knows what he wants and makes no apologies for it, that's a commendable thing in a society which seems to be built on a foundation of conformity and repression.

Not everyone is built to have meaningful relationships, fall in love and have children. In a way he is doing himself and potential mate a favor by not pursuing something that is isn't congruent with his character. I say good for him

Now if you really want to contribute value to this thread you will tell us how you think your sexual confidence rates compared to older women. Have you orgasmed before? Do you know how to get a guy off properly? Are you cool with your body and being seen nude? Do you have pictures/videos relevant to any of these questions? This is purely in the name of science of course :D
 

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I don't see how this is a tip and how it is more than a quite pathetic story...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ Logic

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I agree this is not a tip. Rookie mistake from someone who should know better.

But we are used to that here :p
 

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Total opposite of me. 18 and 19 year old girls love me even though I could be their fathers. I love them right back. Someone has to.
 
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