"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Metalixia

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Can I ask? Has anyone ever gotten back, ever, with a girl who dumped them with the LJBF ****?

i want to know?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my weekend had been great. If you're nice, i'll even let you in on the details, once it's actually happened.

how was yours?
 

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I know this is a "AFC" question, blah blah, "one-i-tis" i've read all that bollocks. i'm just looking for a plain answer.

Has anyone ever been dumped by a girl because of a lack of attraction, being a wuss, ect, and ever gotten back with her?

I don't care about anyone's opinion of it, just fact.
 

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I've done that one time, years ago. It didn't work. That is why I have not done it since. I WAS a chump although I didn't really behave as one, looking back.

Still didn't work out. For my money, forget her, if she pursues begging for you to fvck her, your call. But I think I'd leave it at that. Little to no effort on your part. Good luck.

--Crowes
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wouldnt say we got back together, but there was a good 8 months of casual sex, about three months after we broke up.
 
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