"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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their is this girl that was going with my friend and i stayed at his place one night he went to bed and it was just me and her their in the living room pretty drunk and out of it when we she started to talk about how she loved sex and all the trimings so i was their dumbfounded not expecting this conversation so i just let her go on i was nodding and agreeing with her so all of a sudden she startes talking about how she trimed her pubic hair and started to undo her pants to show me so i was feeling weird were she was my buds girl and i turned into the couch and said for her to stop for moral reasons so that was it for that.

so after a while when id see her and talk to her and she seemed very atracted to me i think because i made her think that i was to good for her and this is not the case i am very atracted to her but she stoped seeing my bud after a while.
this is about 2 years ago and another bud of mine talkes to her every now and them and he tells me that she has been asking about me every time he sees her and says shed like to see me again and talk or what not. i know were she lives and i was thinking of just droping in on her for a chat which i know she wont mind. the way i think of it i have been giving her the cold sholder kind of playing hard to get and now im ready to do it up i just hope she never lost intreast in me so what do ye all think i should do in this situation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by nfld
their is this girl that was going with my friend and i stayed at his place one night he went to bed and it was just me and her their in the living room pretty drunk and out of it when we she started to talk about how she loved sex and all the trimings so i was their dumbfounded not expecting this conversation so i just let her go on i was nodding and agreeing with her so all of a sudden she startes talking about how she trimed her pubic hair and started to undo her pants to show me so i was feeling weird were she was my buds girl and i turned into the couch and said for her to stop for moral reasons so that was it for that.

so after a while when id see her and talk to her and she seemed very atracted to me i think because i made her think that i was to good for her and this is not the case i am very atracted to her but she stoped seeing my bud after a while.
this is about 2 years ago and another bud of mine talkes to her every now and them and he tells me that she has been asking about me every time he sees her and says shed like to see me again and talk or what not. i know were she lives and i was thinking of just droping in on her for a chat which i know she wont mind. the way i think of it i have been giving her the cold sholder kind of playing hard to get and now im ready to do it up i just hope she never lost intreast in me so what do ye all think i should do in this situation.
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hey man your a good guy/friend for not allowing your buds gf to do that. You respected him which is awesome. But now shes fair game might as well go for it.
 
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thanks i may stop down for a drop in today and give it a shot i will post with my results.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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