Old friendzone oneitis chick contacts me, shes even annoying need some advice here!

[TheGambino]

I was a big AFC with this chick in the past, I was crazy about her those days and she knows it, I cut all contact after founding out about all this game. I only small talk with her at birthdays for example and that's it.

She texted me on my birthday and I teased her like the new me over text.

I changed a lot myself I lost 40pounds in 2 years and I got some girls that reacted with 'heart' icons under my facebook pictures and stuff the new me probably :crazy: her mind.

Anyway she texted me last week about how I am doing and stuff and I told her to meet up with me coz I was near her house, she said next time you come call me first coz im busy right know but I would love to have drinks with you next time (shes a pro in giving men hope, I figured that out years ago).

Anyway today she texts me again: wow your new picture your so skinny its scary...

I replied with: You aint used to the new me, so get used *name

she replies: your neck, its sooo skinny, too skinny :O (sh1ttest for sure)

I replied with: hahah (didnt know what to say to her)

but shes kinda taking me down for some reason, maybe coz I improved so much, got girls around me and she knows it and kinda sh1ttesting me.

So I tried to call her to make fun of her, have a small talk and make her curious about me. She didnt pick up

How would you guys react on stuff like this ? Old friendzone girls you used to like that takes you down and teases you big time for some reason

 

[Kailex]

Sounds like she is just doing it for the attention... and you are giving it to her.
Cut that chit-chat out and tell her to go out with you and you can talk all about it over drinks. But you're falling back into the AFC mindset...

She's taking you down because she just wants to see if the change is strictly physical or if there is more to it.

I would just ask her out, and if she puts up resistance or seems flaky... forget it. Usually women from our past come back when they have no other options and/or are bored and/or need attention.

Don't be old you, be new you.

 

[cataxdz]

i know how that feels

just treat her like any other girl/women.

 

[TheGambino]

Sounds like she is just doing it for the attention... and you are giving it to her.
Cut that chit-chat out and tell her to go out with you and you can talk all about it over drinks. But you're falling back into the AFC mindset...

She's taking you down because she just wants to see if the change is strictly physical or if there is more to it.

I would just ask her out, and if she puts up resistance or seems flaky... forget it. Usually women from our past come back when they have no other options and/or are bored and/or need attention.

Don't be old you, be new you.

How am I giving it to her? I wanted to call her exactley to ask her out by phone in stead of lame texting

hmm so the sh1t test like this would you respond different bro

 

[Alvafe]

its nice when world goes around like that huh?

but if it was me I wouldn't bother, too busy to lose even more time with her, but up to you, try to do a bang jsut to have the feeling you did, but I wouldn't bother

 

[om1xr]

Sounds like she is just doing it for the attention... and you are giving it to her.

She's taking you down because she just wants to see if the change is strictly physical or if there is more to it.

I would just ask her out, and if she puts up resistance or seems flaky... forget it. Usually women from our past come back when they have no other options and/or are bored and/or need attention.

+1 this. Listen to this guy.

girls generally operate in a different way when it comes to their main survival ego food ( Attention and Validation). that mean when she send you a text and you reply she knows she will get you again and that's enough for her to inflate her ego and give her a good rush of emotions.

s you can ask her out again and she may flake again and if you are the kind of a person who gives fvck about rejections and has a fragile ego then you will come here again and start complaining and b!tching about this b!tch.

or she may accept your offer and you may have some interesting experience so it depends on your state of mind and if you give too many fvcks or not and if you can walk away from bad situations in a drop of a hat.

and one more thing you should improve your texting skills and stop replying on stupid texts from girls like the neck one or texts that are just stupid and there is no point of replying.

good like man!