"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Old Friends Trying To Ruin My Life...help!!

Ken785

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im fvckin pissd right now. i have a girl cousin who is dating one of my old "friends". they have been going out for about 4 years now. I HATE THIS DUDE!!! EVERYTIME I THINK OF HIM IT MAKES ME WANT TO PUKE. ive known him for about 8 years now and i was friends with him until i finally realized that he was nothing more than a b1TCH!! He wouls always try to bring me down, everytime he saw me (which was like almost everyday) he would open up to me about all his problems, how he hates life, and blah blah blah....this happened EVERYDAY. Theres other stuff too but i wont get into that right now, too much typing. anyways i stopped hanging out with this loser 2 years ago because i realized he did nothing but make me depressed and want to kill myself (i think he did it intentionally because he never says that kind of stuff to anyone else)

Anyways so i stop hanging out with dude and my life is great....but only problem is hes still going out with my cousin (whom im still not talking too) her family even disowned her for dating him, she even dropped out of school to do it, one time she ran away from her parents house and stayed at his friends place....next thing i hear is him showing off to my other cousins (non related to her) that that night she had went down on him and intentionally tried to get her pregnant!! I WAS MADD!! I know hes just using her cuz its the only girl he could get (hes very ugly).

so now my cousin is brainwashed and in "love" with this dude and cares more about him then her own immediete family which she ran away from, and im stuck with him in my life. i dont talk to either of them and made it very clear that i dont want him in my life anymore and i havent seen him since, but my cousin comes over to hang out with my little sisters.....now heres my problem....

They have been hanging out with my little sisters (which i tried telling my little sisters not to but they wont listen) and they have been running their mouth to them about my past....how my old "friends" used to use me and manipulate me for money, weed, beer, or what have you.

What do i do?? these fvckers are brainwashing my little sisters and telling them about my past in which i try to forget, they have no right to tell them anything!! they expected my little sisters not to tell me and one of them did because i was arguing with her and she blurted out "his friends used to use him!!" i was shocked!! WHO KNOWS WHAT OTHER THINGS THEY COULD HAVE TOLD THEM!! I HOPE THAT FVCKER ISNT GOING TO TRY TO DEPRESS MY LITTLE SISTERS TOO.

i seriously want them out of my life!!!!! they are trying to ruin the relationship with my family!! i want to confront thse two idiots but dont want to end up going to jail. HELP!!
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Julian

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kick that dudes ass.
 

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Originally posted by Ken785
im fvckin pissd right now. i have a girl cousin who is dating one of my old "friends". they have been going out for about 4 years now. I HATE THIS DUDE!!! EVERYTIME I THINK OF HIM IT MAKES ME WANT TO PUKE. ive known him for about 8 years now and i was friends with him until i finally realized that he was nothing more than a b1TCH!! He wouls always try to bring me down, everytime he saw me (which was like almost everyday) he would open up to me about all his problems, how he hates life, and blah blah blah....this happened EVERYDAY. Theres other stuff too but i wont get into that right now, too much typing. anyways i stopped hanging out with this loser 2 years ago because i realized he did nothing but make me depressed and want to kill myself (i think he did it intentionally because he never says that kind of stuff to anyone else)

Anyways so i stop hanging out with dude and my life is great....but only problem is hes still going out with my cousin (whom im still not talking too) her family even disowned her for dating him, she even dropped out of school to do it, one time she ran away from her parents house and stayed at his friends place....next thing i hear is him showing off to my other cousins (non related to her) that that night she had went down on him and intentionally tried to get her pregnant!! I WAS MADD!! I know hes just using her cuz its the only girl he could get (hes very ugly).

so now my cousin is brainwashed and in "love" with this dude and cares more about him then her own immediete family which she ran away from, and im stuck with him in my life. i dont talk to either of them and made it very clear that i dont want him in my life anymore and i havent seen him since, but my cousin comes over to hang out with my little sisters.....now heres my problem....

They have been hanging out with my little sisters (which i tried telling my little sisters not to but they wont listen) and they have been running their mouth to them about my past....how my old "friends" used to use me and manipulate me for money, weed, beer, or what have you.

What do i do?? these fvckers are brainwashing my little sisters and telling them about my past in which i try to forget, they have no right to tell them anything!! they expected my little sisters not to tell me and one of them did because i was arguing with her and she blurted out "his friends used to use him!!" i was shocked!! WHO KNOWS WHAT OTHER THINGS THEY COULD HAVE TOLD THEM!! I HOPE THAT FVCKER ISNT GOING TO TRY TO DEPRESS MY LITTLE SISTERS TOO.

i seriously want them out of my life!!!!! they are trying to ruin the relationship with my family!! i want to confront thse two idiots but dont want to end up going to jail. HELP!!
quit being such a moron.

i have things in my past that i hate getting out. if you've truly changed from that person you can just laugh it off, and thats the last you'll hear about it.

u think you might do something that might leave you in jail because someone told your sister he used to use you?

--how the hell are we supposed to address this?

get a life.

quit being a b*tch.

have you learnt anything in your time here?
 

Desdinova

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What the hell does this have to do with you? So you're related to them. BIG DEAL. I'm sure they'll fvck up and maybe learn from their mistakes. Worry about yourself and your own life.
 
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