old friends on myspace/facebook??

[isoman2kx]

I'm sure this has been asked a few times, however, mine comes with a slight twist.

That is, how do you game recently single chicks that you used to know on facebook/myspace after they become single?

I don't have the numbers of these girls, however I've still got their facebook/myspace from class.

Most of the time when I try to wall post or whatever, they never reply back too much to even gain some rapport for a possible hookup. Any help for more responses?

 

[omgwtfm8]

What's an example of what you are posting on their wall?

 

[thirtyplus]

Don't waste your time. Hitting on chicks you USED to be in class with is futile for the most part, unless they were EXTREMELY into you at the time.

Once you leave class or whatever work / association you had with them that got you their internet **** in the first place, that ship has sailed. Don't try to swim after it into the harbor, you will just look pathetic.

 

[isoman2kx]

What's an example of what you are posting on their wall?

well usually the every other month or so post to see how their doing (in my attempt to message them later with hooking up in mind) goes like this

"hey kid, long time no talk, what ya been up to?" or "hey, you should write back once every 5 years or so, what's up? "

and then that leads to a reply back message...but then when i reply it's like there was nothing to reply to for them.

convo with this one chick below, the top message was the last one i sent, and it hasn't gotten a response since

me wrote
at 11:34pm on March 11th, 2007
oh yeah, it's more the fact that we actually get a break that's exciting these days lol.

yeah my grandma looks like she's doing better, wasn't looking too good when we took her in.

still at office depot, it's not bad there, a job like anything else these days, lol.

ya doing anything fun for spring break?
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her (Texas A&M) wrote
at 1:19pm on March 11th, 2007
awww is your grandmother ok?? hopefully she is. and i know im just ecxited for a break.. its gonna come and go very quickly im sure. anyways im still at kona grill in the galleria.. and are u still at office depot?? HAVE AN AMAZING WEEK
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me wrote
at 12:21pm on March 11th, 2007
i'm honored, haha.

that's great to hear your dad turned out ok. we got a scare over here with my grandma too yesterday, had to go into the hospital again.

aside from that, not too bad... work's well... work lol and school... is done with for a week . where ya working these days?
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her (Texas A&M) wrote
at 1:11am on March 10th, 2007
well now that its a new year... let me start.. hahah jk jk im sorry though ive been nothing but a busy busy girl... everything turned out well with my dad.. thank the lord... and ive been busy with work and school... but other than that cant really complain... how bout u?? whats new???
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me wrote
at 10:27am on March 9th, 2007
you know, you should write back once every few years or so

 

[isoman2kx]

Don't waste your time. Hitting on chicks you USED to be in class with is futile for the most part, unless they were EXTREMELY into you at the time.

Once you leave class or whatever work / association you had with them that got you their internet **** in the first place, that ship has sailed. Don't try to swim after it into the harbor, you will just look pathetic.

yeah, i tend to agree with this more lately.

i was just wondering if there was any resurrection that could be done once ya get out of that work/school connection.

 

[omgwtfm8]

Don't ask the typical, "Where ya been?", "What's up?", or mentioning of any time between communication.

Say something figurative or an inference.

For example (this lead me to meet someone after a long time of no communication)

A chick I haven't talked to in awhile on facebook had this obnoxious profile picture of her giving a thumbs up sign with her hand.

I just posted "Thumbs up!" on her wall, then she became the AFC type and posted back with, "Heyyyyy WHere have you been?"

 

[isoman2kx]

Don't ask the typical, "Where ya been?", "What's up?", or mentioning of any time between communication.

Say something figurative or an inference.

For example (this lead me to meet someone after a long time of no communication)

This chick on facebook had this obnoxious picture of her giving a Thumbs up with her hand.

I just posted "Thumbs up!" on her wall, then she became the AFC type and posted, "Heyyyyy WHere have you been?"

so more of the discreet, wall post on something she's done lately

or a picture post would work better?

 

[omgwtfm8]

Picture posts may work, but only if they check their e-mail because that's the only way they are informed.

Poking is sometimes cool. If you get a poke back, you could be like, "Quit poking me loser " on her wall

Could cause a playful argument when she replies with, "you started it".

Just play around, don't ask boring questions. Don't answer their questions either, use C+F responses, and don't respond right away.

PS: Don't fall back to old friends. Meet new ones. It's more exciting, just because they become single on myspace/facebook, doesn't mean they are not still banging the ex everynight. Most of the time when someone goes right to the single status, is too p!ss off their ex so they can complain.