"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJmike

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I got a problem, I have a lady friend that i havent seen in a long while(1year) well not really a lady friend shes 16 but i have rescently been talkin to her on the phone tryin to get good with her again.. i told her i would pick her up and take her out... i figure we'll go get somthin to eat at a nice place and go see a movie.. but i really need to know how to get physical with her.. she knows me as her funny friend that she'd never sex up. but since she's seen me last i've sharpened up and i'm not a douchebag anymore,, never really was i just lost 20 lbs and changed my style alittle bit(ie;clothes and how i talk to girls)i want to atleast make out with her and get s spark lit with her,, not tryin to do her(not that i wouldnt want to). any help for me?

I'll desribe me.. 6'1'' brown hair short military cut kinda.. i usually where hollister and stuff i'm not the flipped collar prep but close.. usually the funny one at the lunch table you know what i mean.

let me know what u think.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ThaDJ

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lol poser? I just made a change to wearing better clothes and trying to just look good in genereal.. ive gotten a real good response.. and i like the style.

But yea Just try to be cool dont jump into things. Like makin out just make it happen dont force her into it... Seduce her.
 

DJmike

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not a poser, i have always worn clothes like this just not as much, i was the first person in my class in like 6th grade to wear american eagle.. so if i do sound like a poser so be it, but i'm not. I'm not trying to get into her pants but it would be a plus. the last time we really talked alot i was the "desperate-funny-virgin-not mature enough to get with" kinda guy to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonCharlie24

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i wear the same kinda clothes bro, you really get good responses from all races (even against the usual stereo-types), its perdy nice. but dude if you want to get some from her, just go to the movies, and do that old school thing where they yawn and put there arm around her, make it obvious, and like kinda play with her sides a little bit, you should get some good responses if she hasnt seen you in a year, plus if you sharpened up a little bit, ill leave the rest up to you. you stud you
 
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