"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There is this one girl that I used to be interested in back during Freshman year (I'm going to be a Senior now) that moved away to Toledo, Ohio after Freshman year ended. So basically I've been talking to her once in a while online over the past few years, just keeping myself in her mind. About a month ago, when I last conversed with her, she said "call me NYC Dude! Here's my #: ______" Well, I didn't until today, and I found out that she's coming to NYC in early august. I tell her that we're doing something when she visits, and she's enthusiastic about it. Then I end the conversation.

Now I'm not sure about what to do when we actually do go somewhere. I'm thinking about showing her around the city, stuff that she missed by going to Toledo. Thing is, I'm not too good with doing a whole lot on the first date. Since this will be the first and last date, I want at the very least a kiss from her, but I'm not used to progressing that quickly on a first date. Any help about what I should do will be appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go for the quick and painless 'holiday bang'.
If you won't see her again, whats the harm?
 
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