OLD FLAME HB 8.5 sending messages....whats goin on?...(your opinion)

[Badmannaz]

i usually dont ask for advice im usually giving it but im pretty sure what im gonna do but i just wanna know what you all would do in my position

story:

Ok so while in college i was friends with this hb8.5 for awhile because i felt she was a hoe and a out of my league so i never tried her...found out that actually attracted her more to me because i never tried to f*ck her i just treated her like a person...we had slept together and messed around a couple times...then one night we ended up F*cking....next day she never talked to me again...about 2 to 3 months would past till i said sorry for whatever and then she ended up opening up to me and apologizing saying she "REALLY LIKED ME" and didnt know how to act so she just stop talking to me im like "whatever" lol i was with other girls and i was like COOL...so we ended up going back to friends but i stoped going to the school for a semester...now im going back and she's been messaging me..when im on facebook she gives alot of attention to the page...and idk

situation is your going back to school...you have a chick up there that u used to **** your not sure if u have a chance or not...but i came to believe as a man any chick if she likes u...she's going to show you attention...so what would you do....? after i get some good opinions i'll tell u what i'll most likely do...

 

[thecurtainfalls]

I am in a very similar situation. My personal experience is that once any significant amount of time passes without talking to the girl (3+ months, though in my case it was two years!), it's almost like a clean slate.

You're right... she is attracted to you! You've had past success with her. Don't worry about the awkwardness of your history together; I've been in that boat and I can definitely say that if you're both horny enough, the past will not be an issue. I say full steam ahead, she obviously wants you on some level.

 

[Badmannaz]

yea thats wassup...i mean my dry spell consist of random sex lol a couple one night stands here and there....when im on i usually have like 3 to 5 girls im talking to at once...but she was one who always stuck around..

 

[thedarkpassenger]

It sounds like maybe she got hurt by another guy, and she may be going back to you as a rebound? Don't want to be cynical, but think about it. Women don't just start thinking about a guy from the past for no reason. Something happened to make her start thinking about you. Just keep that in mind and approach carefully.

 

[Badmannaz]

hmm that sounds interesting.....she kinda knows i'm good and she did kinda stop talking to me...but she's hot enough and she still dates hella people i mean she really attractive but...im like that guy who really doesnt give a f*ck but everytime she sees me shes all in my face..its weird...if you ever had a HOTT chick like you...she really doesnt think she looks that good sometimes...girls are weird like that..