"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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old date txting me to catch up?

tony-montana

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well today someone msg me an i didnt know who it was until i checked some old txt msgs that matched the number. (i deleted her ages ago). i went out with her three times.. we drank a little and made out nothing too serious. kissed a bit again the other couple dates. she wasnt really my type to date.. just to fool around with. then i went on holidays and kinda just stopped talkin to her. until today she said

"hey how ru. was going thru my phone and thought id say hi. still my neighbor?" - cause i live down the road from her.

i replied: "hey im good just been busy, how are you? yep still ya neighbor."

she said: "yeh i been totally busy as well with work and stopped going out. concentrating on career. should catch up if you want."

not sure what to do... cause she really put me off last time drinking alot and driving.. got stopped by police and they took her into the police car for like an hour... i had to wait in her car. very dissapointing. anyway.. that was last time i saw her... we still never fuked. she kinda played hard to get with me and i had to make moves. now the way shes talking is like shes a changed girl? she use to go out to raves n take drugs she told me. maybe shes off it now. any opinions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chrisgoodrich25

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tony-montana said:
well today someone msg me an i didnt know who it was until i checked some old txt msgs that matched the number. (i deleted her ages ago). i went out with her three times.. we drank a little and made out nothing too serious. kissed a bit again the other couple dates. she wasnt really my type to date.. just to fool around with. then i went on holidays and kinda just stopped talkin to her. until today she said

"hey how ru. was going thru my phone and thought id say hi. still my neighbor?" - cause i live down the road from her.

i replied: "hey im good just been busy, how are you? yep still ya neighbor."

she said: "yeh i been totally busy as well with work and stopped going out. concentrating on career. should catch up if you want."

not sure what to do... cause she really put me off last time drinking alot and driving.. got stopped by police and they took her into the police car for like an hour... i had to wait in her car. very dissapointing. anyway.. that was last time i saw her... we still never fuked. she kinda played hard to get with me and i had to make moves. now the way shes talking is like shes a changed girl? she use to go out to raves n take drugs she told me. maybe shes off it now. any opinions?
sounds to me like we have a winner...chris tell the man what hes won...well bob hes won a 1 way ticket to "waste your time land" with all accomodations to be provided by "himself"....he'll also be accompanied by the "girl not of his dreams" Who will waste his money and any opertunity at lasting happiness..But wait bob theres still more..He'll also get the chance to boost her self esteem all the while decreasing his all this for being the 10th caller to pick up his phone...
 

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have a good video at home that you think she would like, along with her fav wine or whatever. if she texts, say "I'm 3 minutes away, and about to watch The Notebook on video. I have the popcorn & wine, all thats missing is my old buddy Mary (her name?). Get your a$$ over here and join me, silly girl". 50-50 chance she will come over. If she does, fill her up with wine, and start kinoing, etc. We are talking sex, not LTR
 

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Excellent plan, there.
 
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