OKC Sh1t test already...

[Deadly_Ripped]

Hi,

So I'm on OKC for greater exposure... I've only met a few people and nothing really went anywhere except the bedroom or me ignoring a follow-up phone call or text. Recently I've been getting a ridiculous number of hits and finally started talking with someone who has really caught my initial interest.

Exchanged 5 (each) LONG mail messages on OKC and agreed to meet with this girl - athletic, tall, cute face - I'd say an 8-9.

On last e-mail that I sent (2 days before we were supposed to meet up) without getting into specifics about when/exactly where to meet up she doesn't reply.

I was getting a cold so, the day before we were supposed to meet up, I told her that I had to postpone, even though she hadn't yet replied to my e-mail with questions and more specifics. I told her to give me her number and I'd call or text when I was feeling better.

Fast forward 6 days later and she finally sent me back a relatively short e-mail asking me if such and such went well and if I had a chance to do such and such and then she said she hoped I was feeling better. She told me "If you'd still like to get together my number is ..."

Now the question is, how long do I wait before texting her? And do I text or call. I'm thinking text, because if I wasn't that interested I wouldn't bother calling, and I definitely don't want to waste time talking to her on the phone where I can't make eye contact or be physically playful.

This Sh1t test is already making me think that this girl is either EXTREMELY defensive or EXTREMELY manipulative. Thoughts??

 

[ENIGMA16]

What the fvck? This isn't a sh!t test. Just call her...

 

[The Experience]

Oh crap I think she's EXTREMELY defensive AND manipulative...Dude she gave you her number..

You call her when you want to call her. OR text her when you want to text her. No need to be really playful, all you need to do here is set up a get together.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Your sarcasms were well placed... talked to her on the phone tonight and she actually seemed extremely normal and friendly and whatnot. Plans to hang out are tentative, as she says that she's getting a cold (same thing that happened to me last week).

My preoccupation with some potential ulterior motive was way off. Damn it's just that every girl as good looking as this one has inevitably been an attention WH0re or a b1tch and she seems at least not to be a b1tch and the jury's still out on the attention wh0re. Maybe it was a problem with my game in the past, or maybe it was them.

Once burned, always scarred. Can't let my guard down or I'm sure I'll get played for a fool. I don't care how stupid or AFC or immature that sounds.