"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Okay things aint going great with girl and kinda has to do with previous post.

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Okay I need help here I figure im just have to do what I need.

Basically I see things going downhill with this girl like a sliding mountain.

i feel comfortable if ic an talk to someone can i call one of you guys or you call me??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay basically we went raw and that was fine. Other night we were supposed to go Mobb Deep concert and she was like im tired and didnt want to go and she was like will you be mad I said no and she is like thanks for understanding. We were supposed to get together tonight and she said she would text me when she is done with her friends and she wont text me and i asked her when she is coming over no reply? Will being honest mess things up what do i do here?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Okay basically we went raw and that was fine. Other night we were supposed to go Mobb Deep concert and she was like im tired and didnt want to go and she was like will you be mad I said no and she is like thanks for understanding. We were supposed to get together tonight and she said she would text me when she is done with her friends and she wont text me and i asked her when she is coming over no reply? Will being honest mess things up what do i do here?
Stop chasing and let her come at you at her own pace. Texting her/calling her will only push her away further. The chasing should be done by the girl.
 

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yep. go ghost for now
 
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Thats ok but dont understand fully why and she would do that she says thanks for this week and stuff and saw me today before left town had good sex n all??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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See Why You Had to Take Four Years of English in High School

On every thing I lovd and hold dear. This muthaf*cka needs to banned from the forum until he's demonstated that he's learned and mastered the fundamentals of grammar and sentence structure. Maybe you're having such a hard time with chicks because you're functionally illiterate. Chicks don't want be with dudes who can't read or write.
 
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