Okay still having problems encoutering boyfriend thing. and also nother girl ignor y?

[thelonewolflegend]

Tell me how you would go about conversation with this stupid crap or whatever tell me did I really have chance or she have BF? I got her number walking down street on sat night on Washington ave.

Me - Hey Mykia hows it going? This is paul from the other night on wash ave.
Her - Hey there! How are you? Did went while I was walking down the street?
Me - Hey I'm doing great yeah it sure was what you been up to?
Her - Nothing much, just working and living you?
Me - Yeah same here pretty much living life. You have a good week so far?
(No reply decided to ask her out next day)
Me - Hey Mykia whats up? I want you to join me tomorrow night for a drink, when would you be free?
Her - I really appreciate the offer, you're too sweet, but I have a boyfriend.
Me - That's great you can have him whenever you aren't around with me I get done with my training tomorrow night and I would be free around 8 would that work for you?
Her - Lol well I think having a boyfriend would be an issue, don't you?
Me - I don't see an issue really what would be the reason?
She ignores me so pretty much I say stuff and want answers and try move on my friend said she has BF forget it but HOW DO YOU KNOW if lying test?

Me - I'm not trying to date or do anything serious I'm not like attracted to you that much just hang
I'd like to be friends n stuff and get advice with you for other girls im talking to, Yeah my dude said not to bother just wondering though why you'd give me number if playing games cut thru the BS just looking to find F buddy or hang don't see problem is or what deal is aiight then peace out.

Her - Wait I'm confused did I meet in Lucas Park or out in front of Lucas Park?
Me - Out in Front
Her - Ok I hope you find a friend was just trying to be nice Bye.
We can be friends I don't think my BF would love me going out to get drinks sorry.

that's pretty much it
tell me what did wrong or how you would handle???

DIFFERENT GIRL HAVING ISSUE AS WELL
I talked to her pretty decent 10-15 mins at bar got her number

Me - Hey cathy this is paul from morgans the other night how you been doin?
Her - Oh fine. you?
Me - Been doing good just working and taking it easy hows your week looking?
Her - Busy As Usual.
Me - ok gotcha you work a lot? We should get together for drinks next week when are you free?
She ignored my texts what do you do from here? Also what should I have done differently possibly?

HELP THANKS!!!!!!!!!!

 

[djthiago1]

Future tip, do not mess with girls with boyfriends, it's hard enough getting single girls, plus you look like an *******, very disrespectful.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

What I am saying is how do you know if they have BF or **** testing???

 

[SmooveMooves]

Well, ill let one of the other guys give you a full fledged report on your mistakes as such post would be too long. And in my opinion, I would disregard the thing about not messing with chicks with Bfs, if she's not fvcking with your friend she's fair game.

On the first dame, after that "You can have your BF anytime your not around me......" text you should've left it alone. She wasn't interested and her boyfriend had her on shackles, she most likely gave you her number out of politeness, attention, and +10 to her ego meter. After she ignored you, you shouldve deleted her number, that last ditch text you sent made you appear butthurt and desperate.

Sidenote: When approaching, you should look to create an anchor that can be used to remind her of the high energy you displayed during the interaction when you contact her. For instance, say a harlot was wearing an ugly sweater during the encounter and you made jokes about it, instead of opening a text with "Hey whats up *Insert typical harlot name*" you can say "Still got on that ugly sweater?" Which will instantly remind her of interaction. I usually find my anchors in the form of negs.

As for the second girl, she flat out, just wasn't interested. From information provided I'm going to go out on a limb and infer that your text game isn't your strongsuit. If I am corrrect you need to do one of two things,
1.) Call these h0es
2 .) Read a post on texting, I recall a memeber saying he read a guide, I believe it was GravityEyeLids

 

[thelonewolflegend]

bump want to know thanks.

 

[asa_don]

Her - I really appreciate the offer, you're too sweet, but I have a boyfriend.

Her - Lol well I think having a boyfriend would be an issue, don't you?

Her - Ok I hope you find a friend was just trying to be nice Bye.
We can be friends I don't think my BF would love me going out to get drinks sorry.

why don't you hit up single chicks? she's rejecting your advances in the nicest way possible.

Me - That's great you can have him whenever you aren't around with me

Me - I don't see an issue really what would be the reason?

Me - I'm not trying to date or do anything serious I'm not like attracted to you that much just hang.

this is being pushy and desperate with a taken girl

She ignores me

you got your answer. next!

Me - Hey cathy this is paul from morgans the other night how you been doin?
Her - Oh fine. you?
Me - Been doing good just working and taking it easy hows your week looking?
Her - Busy As Usual.
Me - ok gotcha you work a lot? We should get together for drinks next week when are you free?
She ignored my texts what do you do from here? Also what should I have done differently possibly?

you do nothing. find a girl who doesn't have a boyfriend and one who wants to talk to you. the last one doesn't even care to talk.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Ok I have had this problem more then once. How can I have her want to talk to me I mean she was talking to me at the bar I was chatting with her and got her number so what would it take to get her interested in me?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

appreciate all advice!