"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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okay so this girl...

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a friend of a girl I used to hang out with, adds me on myspace and tells me that I'm cute and she just wanted to add me(after I asked her "do I know you")
I have a girlfriend and it clearly says that on my page: "In A Relationship".
Is this going to be a sure-fire game-killer?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is the problem? :yes:

Chicks want guys that are unavailable... just string her along like an AFC.
 
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I mean I don't get it. How is that a "game killer" or even relevant to anything?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Huh? Are you running game while you have a girlfriend? Don't do that, if you want to run game, dump her ass.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
why would it be a "game-killer"? cause girl may not wanna be my concubine yo
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Yeah... ok.

A Myspace "add" isn't exactly a spinning plate act....homie.
 
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yo yo watup homies just spittin some dro rubber band banks ya heard!

Ima outer space balla, put you up on astronomy.
Mathematically with a pistol I do trigonometry.
Humbly, eat up a nigga like a paranah B.
Riding in the cutlass same color as a bumble bee.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so does anyone have any solid advice? It appears she has a boyfriend, but he looks like your typical emo tool. she prob needs a man like me.
 
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