Walking Anomaly
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Hey all, hows life treatin ya?
...Good
Anyway, I'm in an LTR. Been together for about 4 months. No sex has taken place yet. She's a virgin, or so she tells me, but I have no reason not to believe her. She is horny, and very inexperienced.
Anyway, on attempts of sex to no avail, she tells me that when she was about 12 years old, her old neighbor, was good friends with her family because he was marrying her nanny. Supposedly he was a friendly guy and always used to give kids on the block candy (at this point, ALARM goes off in my head...I know where this is going...). Anyway, supposedly he was drunk one day and she was in his house for some reason, and he wouldnt let her leave. From what she told me it seemed like borderline molestation. He wasn't touching her, but supposedly touching himself in front of her.
Anyway, she tells her parents, action is taken, restraining order, guy had to move out, whatever. I've been wondering maybe if she's blowing smoke up my azz, but again I have no reason not to believe what she has told me.
Then, last year she starts seeing her first boyfriend, who was more like a friend with benefits (at least he wanted to be) who she told me always used to try and force her to perform sex acts. She wouldn't, he'd kick her out and not speak to her for a week or two, until he was feeling horny enough to try again. And she kept subjecting herself to it!! This is all from accounts that she told to me.
So I told her, "What are you, dumb? Someone does something that messed up to you, you leave, kick him in the nuts, something. And never talk to them again. That's stupid."
All of this, I believe, contributes to her, for lack of a better word, fear of sex. One time, while I was seducing her, she told me that she had like flashbacks (what the hell).
A bit later, we're talking about all of the events that have been mentioned above, and I tell her;
"They're unbelieveable, it happens to some people and they're messed up for the rest of their life."
She says she wants to get passed them and take our relationship further.
...At this point, I'm feeling a bit bad, but I also don't want to be a chump and say like "take your time," because I feel then like she could just put it off as long as she wants (me giving her the power of sex)
So I say, "I know you want to get past them. You do what you have to do...but I won't wait forever."
We're now in present day... Gone a bit further, but still no sex.
Im asking about this because I want to hear your opinions.
Do you think she is blowing smoke up my azz, or just someone who makes sucky decisions?
What are your opinions of my handling the situation with getting past the events?
And also, what do I do now?
Much appreciated people
...Good
Anyway, I'm in an LTR. Been together for about 4 months. No sex has taken place yet. She's a virgin, or so she tells me, but I have no reason not to believe her. She is horny, and very inexperienced.
Anyway, on attempts of sex to no avail, she tells me that when she was about 12 years old, her old neighbor, was good friends with her family because he was marrying her nanny. Supposedly he was a friendly guy and always used to give kids on the block candy (at this point, ALARM goes off in my head...I know where this is going...). Anyway, supposedly he was drunk one day and she was in his house for some reason, and he wouldnt let her leave. From what she told me it seemed like borderline molestation. He wasn't touching her, but supposedly touching himself in front of her.
Anyway, she tells her parents, action is taken, restraining order, guy had to move out, whatever. I've been wondering maybe if she's blowing smoke up my azz, but again I have no reason not to believe what she has told me.
Then, last year she starts seeing her first boyfriend, who was more like a friend with benefits (at least he wanted to be) who she told me always used to try and force her to perform sex acts. She wouldn't, he'd kick her out and not speak to her for a week or two, until he was feeling horny enough to try again. And she kept subjecting herself to it!! This is all from accounts that she told to me.
So I told her, "What are you, dumb? Someone does something that messed up to you, you leave, kick him in the nuts, something. And never talk to them again. That's stupid."
All of this, I believe, contributes to her, for lack of a better word, fear of sex. One time, while I was seducing her, she told me that she had like flashbacks (what the hell).
A bit later, we're talking about all of the events that have been mentioned above, and I tell her;
"They're unbelieveable, it happens to some people and they're messed up for the rest of their life."
She says she wants to get passed them and take our relationship further.
...At this point, I'm feeling a bit bad, but I also don't want to be a chump and say like "take your time," because I feel then like she could just put it off as long as she wants (me giving her the power of sex)
So I say, "I know you want to get past them. You do what you have to do...but I won't wait forever."
We're now in present day... Gone a bit further, but still no sex.
Im asking about this because I want to hear your opinions.
Do you think she is blowing smoke up my azz, or just someone who makes sucky decisions?
What are your opinions of my handling the situation with getting past the events?
And also, what do I do now?
Much appreciated people