Okay, seduction of a girl begins Monday, need help

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So, on Monday I hope to start actively seducing this girl I talk to/see a lot. Up until now I've been flirty...some negs (I have a question about that which I'll put in the PS)...been trying to avoid the friend ladder.

Anyways, does anyone have a link to a speed seduction routine. I mean , like an actual routine...not just loose concepts. But stuff like "Day 1: do this and that", "Day 2: do that and this', etc.

Otherwise, I'll likely have to work from my Art of Seduction book, and it's a brilliant book, but it takes quite a bit of study and training to actual put it to full usage. I don't want to let this girl slip away so...yeah, basically I'm in a hurry.
 

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You sound like you're coming from a desperate mentality, that you have to have this particular girl.

Thats one major thing you have going against you right now.

As far as scripts for a relationship, I don't think anyone is mad enough to write a routine for a whole relationship from start to finish! You pretty much have to improvise and maybe use some short routines you read about here and use some of the techniques here as guidelines, but for the most part its all your own doing.
 

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Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
You sound like you're coming from a desperate mentality, that you have to have this particular girl.

Thats one major thing you have going against you right now.

As far as scripts for a relationship, I don't think anyone is mad enough to write a routine for a whole relationship from start to finish! You pretty much have to improvise and maybe use some short routines you read about here and use some of the techniques here as guidelines, but for the most part its all your own doing.
It's not desperation, but I AM targetting a specific girl. I'm just saying 'in a hurry' because I don't want to chill for too long and let someone else get with her. Trust me, I'm NOT desperate about this. I basically have just been really laid back until about 10 minutes ago, when I decided I wanted to **** her and that she was a possibility.

so yeah.
 

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seduction takes forever , but the effect is longer lasting and
more intense.in seduction you get deep into a girls mind
and your image stays there in a good seduction.

i am assuming you want this girl to fall in love with you.

PUA type stuff gets you laid quick, it's fast & furious.seduction gets you where a chick falls head over heels over you.BUT
it takes patience and a long time.
you need to internalize the concepts and teachings of
that book and discover what your natural abilities are
as a seducer;type ,persona etc.

seduction requires that you focus your intense attention on
ONE girl. and that's where alot of most guys in
the PUA scene don't really like.

for anyone thats ever been in love and heart broken
can relate to the feeling of having someone stuck in
your mind for years after the break up-
that lingering effect is similar to the effect of being seduced.

as far as a fast & furious routine for seduction,
you may want to try speed seduction by Ross Jeffries.
i have never tried it though.
 

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
seduction takes forever , but the effect is longer lasting and
more intense.in seduction you get deep into a girls mind
and your image stays there in a good seduction.

i am assuming you want this girl to fall in love with you.

PUA type stuff gets you laid quick, it's fast & furious.seduction gets you where a chick falls head over heels over you.BUT
it takes patience and a long time.
you need to internalize the concepts and teachings of
that book and discover what your natural abilities are
as a seducer;type ,persona etc.

seduction requires that you focus your intense attention on
ONE girl. and that's where alot of most guys in
the PUA scene don't really like.

for anyone thats ever been in love and heart broken
can relate to the feeling of having someone stuck in
your mind for years after the break up-
that lingering effect is similar to the effect of being seduced.

as far as a fast & furious routine for seduction,
you may want to try speed seduction by Ross Jeffries.
i have never tried it though.
No, it's not love. I just want to **** her once, or a couple times. I understand that actual seduction is an art, not just something you can skim through and do succesfully. But, I do understand there are 'speed seduction' things that do work, and in this case, I'd like to try.
 

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I Limewire'd Speed Seduction and found a 107 page ebook called "Secrets of Speed Seduction" by Ross Jeffries. Anyone know it?
How did it work?
 

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Originally posted by RarelyGetAHairCut
The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene is your friend:D
Yeah, I read more of the Ross Jeffries thing...I don't like it...it seems way too unrealistic (in terms of the things you're supposed to say to a girl).

Yeah, I guess I'll be doing some studying of my Art of Seduction.
 

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Originally posted by LeMac
So, on Monday I hope to start actively seducing this girl I talk to/see a lot. Up until now I've been flirty...some negs (I have a question about that which I'll put in the PS)...been trying to avoid the friend ladder.

Anyways, does anyone have a link to a speed seduction routine. I mean , like an actual routine...not just loose concepts. But stuff like "Day 1: do this and that", "Day 2: do that and this', etc.

Otherwise, I'll likely have to work from my Art of Seduction book, and it's a brilliant book, but it takes quite a bit of study and training to actual put it to full usage. I don't want to let this girl slip away so...yeah, basically I'm in a hurry.
You do what you have to do. Right now you probably have a basic idea of what to do anyway. So the best thing to do is JUST DO IT. There's a chance you'll get her, there's a chance you won't. Just go in knowing what you know and try it out. You will have learned something anyway, and you'll be better prepared for next time.
 

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Re: Re: Okay, seduction of a girl begins Monday, need help

Originally posted by Jestor
You do what you have to do. Right now you probably have a basic idea of what to do anyway. So the best thing to do is JUST DO IT. There's a chance you'll get her, there's a chance you won't. Just go in knowing what you know and try it out. You will have learned something anyway, and you'll be better prepared for next time.
i call this..the "JUST DO IT" technique. call me the "lazy" player,
but this IS my game and it's not too shappy
:) :cheer:
 

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Originally posted by LeMac
I Limewire'd Speed Seduction and found a 107 page ebook called "Secrets of Speed Seduction" by Ross Jeffries. Anyone know it?
How did it work?

is that SS stuff where you memorize some long a$$
paragraphs embedded with suggestions thats supposed
to create attraction?
i am assuming it's supposed to create images in the
mind through direct suggestions and anchor those old
feelings in the past to the present ones towards the
person reciting the suggestions.

linking something like sex and anchoring that sensation
to the reciter through suggestions, i could see it creating
attraction.

just a thought, i know nothing of SS.


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