Okay, let's clear up my mind

[aloru]

Hi everyone, im 18 and since the beginning of this summer ive been reading about TRP reddit and The Rational Male. i need to say that my approach with women changed, now i m not scared anymore about talking touching and even staying near to them(expecially with hot ones). i grew up, but i need your help.
theres that hot girl that drives me crazy, shes so hot and i badly want to **** her. shes engaged with a guy and i dont know what to do with her, since we are in the same circle of friends and i may end up in a LJBF reject but luckily her bf is 70% of times absent when we hang out. nothings written now, but it will be in the end of the year. ive tried to analyze some of her behaviors but im not able to interpret them(so feel free to ask "does she blablabla?").
to sum up, what do i have to do to let her know subconciously im interested in her also if shes engaged?

ask me anything more you want to know

 

[djthiago1]

Bro. You wanna get shot? Find some single girls.

 

[aloru]

Yeah, im already doing it
the problem is what have i to do with this chick that now is in my circle of friends. simply i dont want to end up as a friend of her, it would be a waste

 

[djthiago1]

If you don't want to get friendzoned, don't be all over here, always be positive (light and funny) and always make sure you got some girls with you. I personally would wait till she's single to make a move, but that's just my opinion.

 

[Skyline]

If he's absent 70% of the time then you don't stand a chance dude. Another thing, she's in your social circle and she's hot... You're right about not wasting this "opportunity" but you're going about it all wrong. You see, I was taught by a poster here named PlayHer_Man to use women against well, women. I've learned that their own jealously and natural narcissistic attitude will have them second guessing themselves when compared to a girl that is blatantly attractive, like your friend. Your friend is a golden ticket dude, when you chat up other girls and they see you having a good time with that hot girl, regardless if you're friend zoned, they are going to get jealous and think of you with higher value simply because they think an attractive girl has interest in you. Just don't ever tell them you're only friends.

Don't ruin this just because you're horny. Social circle is a very strong tool to have inside and out, especially if you have attractive women in it. And I'm not sure what you mean by "engage" but if it's marriage or just exclusive then either way there's always a hot girl around the corner. Go to a college campus for example.

 

[aloru]

damn frayzer...youre probably right. its better if i give up and ill play that ticket as best as i can. thanks man
and thiago, ill follow your advice too.
goin to mix these two.

oh, with engage i dont mean marriage, shes 18 so thats nothing that serious as a marriage