Okay Let Me Try To Explain, I Know I Seem Weird, Just Try To Listen To Me For A Min.

[Mr. Cardio]

Okay guys, I must apologize for my days of whining on this site, I believe that we all go through our phases. Overall, no matter where I go or what I do, I keep coming back to the same advice as to have passion in life, and that “they” are not a completion to it but rather a icing on the cake. I believe that I am having a problem that is not really a problem, but when I think it’s a problem, it becomes one. Its like, I have changed myself and my ways of thinking into a don juan, but what made me go on these rants these couple of days, was that women were just noticing me and showing signs of interest, but I just didn’t approach them.

For me, when I am chasing my passion and everything, I feel the most sexy and the most women interested in me, but its at these times that I have no interest in women at all. Then when I come home from work or the gym, I look at my caller id and see that I have no women to put the icing on my new life that I have created, so now I am forced to go out and FOCUS on getting women, and its at these times, that I don’t do feel comfortable nor do women respond greatly to me. So, I tried using seduction tactics, so when I go out “sarging” as they call it, I would be able to have women connect with me when they do when I am the least bit interested in them. See I am worried, that I will miss out on this wonderful dating scene on here. So I try to make time and invest time by reading and whining on these threads for somebody to explain to me this whole attraction thing so I can turn it on and off, because I don’t really like being around women that much because they get irritating after a while, but I do want them in my life because it just makes me feel better, well, not ness. feel better but you know what I mean.

See, the problem and the reason why you guys might think I am bipolar or just looking for attention, or am not a don juan, is because I am having a hard time trying to get you guys to understand what I am trying to say, and what I am saying is coming off as something totally different and that is not so. I have “united dream and day” as Pook says, the problem is, I guess, is that when women find me attractive and are interested, I don’t feel like being bothered with them, and when I do, its like I seem too creepy.

I hope you guys can understand what I am trying to say and not think I am just trying to get some type of attention or gratification out of getting responds here. I come here for help and insight, but yet, I am having a hard time explaining this to you guys, and I hope you can understand. Ohhhhh, See, I am starting to get frustrated again because I am trying to say something and explain something to you guys and you guys are not going to fvckin understand me and just are going to conclude I am some dumb azz AFC whining.

 

[Tkman]

Damn man you got so much time on your hands. Do you have life ?

 

[Mr. Cardio]

tkman, just help me bro, thats all I want...I am at the office man, just help me and I will leave you guys alone, thats all I want, I know I look and sound dumb but hey

 

[DJ4Real]

I don't know you, so I can't conclude anything about you....

It's all human nature.

When you want something alot and you go after it (desperately), often times you will fail.

But, when you don't seem to care or pay attention. Basically, being cool about stuff, you seem to be able to achieve more.

Formula for attraction:

Push and Pull+C&F+2 steps foward 1 step back+Mystery=Attraction.


Push (give attention) Pull (take away attention) (Push and Pull)

C&F= humor that communicates desirable traits to women (funny, intelligent, witty, strong, dominate, and understanding.)

two steps foward (being playful and flirting) one step back ( acting normal and showing self control).

Mystery= Keeps the woman guessing (does he like me, is he going to say something, is he going to call/email/text me?, is he available today?)

Combined them and balance them out.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

dj4real, thank YOU....I can use that without losing my cool, which is what I was worried about, hey, if you ever near michigan, holla, I will buy you a beer.....

 

[DJ4Real]

your welcome....I'll be there soon for my drink...if you have any questions, just ask...the more questions, the more drinks you owe, lol....

Good Luck

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
tkman, just help me bro, thats all I want...I am at the office man, just help me and I will leave you guys alone, thats all I want, I know I look and sound dumb but hey

You're an idiot and get a life !

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Tkman
You're an idiot and get a life !

Noise isn't acceptable.

If you ask any questions, I'll be rude in my response just like you're being.

Don't bother telling me to shut up because it's not worth the embarrasment on your part.

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by DJ4Real
Noise isn't acceptable.

If you ask any questions I'll be rude in my response just like you're being.

stfu moron

 

[Mr. Cardio]

dont worry, tkman , i got a beer for you too, hey, heres my beer song ready, here it goes:

Oh no, look out, I got a beer in my hand.
Watch out, I got a beer in my hand.
You can talk about me, just don’t talk about my beer.
I got a beer in my hand, and I’ll smack yo ass, ya hear.
His name is Miller, but you can call him, Bud.
His taste is Lite, you can sip him in cups or mugs.
Don’t even think about, talking shyt about me man.
I’ll smack yo ass, because I got a beer in my hand.

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Tkman
stfu moron

Time for some embarrasment...

Moron? is that the best you got? if you're going to make jokes about me, they can't be 5th grade comebacks like "moron".

By the way, your dad called me, he said that you were an accident.

He smacked you as a kid because you were so damn ugly. Get a life and don't sign on again, damn poser.

 

[Tkman]

Mr. Cardio + DJ4Real = Same idiot

I feel a ban is coming

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Tkman
Mr. Cardio + DJ4Real = Same idiot

I feel a ban is coming

You+You=Michael Jackson's kid.

Do you walk around class grabbing yourself?

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by DJ4Real
You+You=Michael Jackson's kid.

lol keep the goodwork for the next 5 minutes clown ... I am waiting for my ride.

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Tkman
lol keep the goodwork for the next 5 minutes clown ... I am waiting for my ride.

With your bad grammar, the minutes would be the clown.

Tell your ride to buy a hooked on phonics for you while you're 'out'.

Good luck

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by DJ4Real
With your bad grammar, the minutes would be the clown.

Tell your ride to buy a hooked on phonics for you while you're 'out'.

Good luck

did I hit a nerve ? are you mad ?

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Tkman
did I hit a nerve ? are you mad ?

Mad? haha, you couldn't make me mad if you tried.

I'm perfectly calm.

I'm even going easy on you.

Embarrassing yourself with comebacks like those, haha, it isn't worth my anger.

 

[scorpio king]

actually, just writing your frustrations and releasing your thoughts even when nobody else understands is good for someone having negative vibes in him.

Congrats Mr. Cardio. Im sorry I cannot give you advice because Im just a Rafc currently in a bootcamp. Why dont you join us

 

[organizedconfusion]

Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
Okay guys, I must apologize for my days of whining on this site, I believe that we all go through our phases. Overall, no matter where I go or what I do, I keep coming back to the same advice as to have passion in life, and that “they” are not a completion to it but rather a icing on the cake. I believe that I am having a problem that is not really a problem, but when I think it’s a problem, it becomes one. Its like, I have changed myself and my ways of thinking into a don juan, but what made me go on these rants these couple of days, was that women were just noticing me and showing signs of interest, but I just didn’t approach them.

For me, when I am chasing my passion and everything, I feel the most sexy and the most women interested in me, but its at these times that I have no interest in women at all. Then when I come home from work or the gym, I look at my caller id and see that I have no women to put the icing on my new life that I have created, so now I am forced to go out and FOCUS on getting women, and its at these times, that I don’t do feel comfortable nor do women respond greatly to me. So, I tried using seduction tactics, so when I go out “sarging” as they call it, I would be able to have women connect with me when they do when I am the least bit interested in them. See I am worried, that I will miss out on this wonderful dating scene on here. So I try to make time and invest time by reading and whining on these threads for somebody to explain to me this whole attraction thing so I can turn it on and off, because I don’t really like being around women that much because they get irritating after a while, but I do want them in my life because it just makes me feel better, well, not ness. feel better but you know what I mean.

See, the problem and the reason why you guys might think I am bipolar or just looking for attention, or am not a don juan, is because I am having a hard time trying to get you guys to understand what I am trying to say, and what I am saying is coming off as something totally different and that is not so. I have “united dream and day” as Pook says, the problem is, I guess, is that when women find me attractive and are interested, I don’t feel like being bothered with them, and when I do, its like I seem too creepy.

I hope you guys can understand what I am trying to say and not think I am just trying to get some type of attention or gratification out of getting responds here. I come here for help and insight, but yet, I am having a hard time explaining this to you guys, and I hope you can understand. Ohhhhh, See, I am starting to get frustrated again because I am trying to say something and explain something to you guys and you guys are not going to fvckin understand me and just are going to conclude I am some dumb azz AFC whining.

it helps if you are just COMFORTABLE with girls,
not just the girls you want to pick up but just girls in general.
you just sound like you are kinda freaked out by them.

from the looks of your thread it sounds like you have some
kind of agenda or looking for some kind of cosmic connection
or super chemistry that may not always be there with everyone
you meet...gezz, lighten up gus not every girl you meet is gonna be "ms.right".

understanding the concepts of attraction sexual communication
does s** when you can't even hold a regular conversation
with a girl let alone anyone

god man , take a break ,unwinde, don't even think about it soo much- i suggest you do this before you go crazy, girls are fun and all but it's not all there is in the world.

do you like cars , martial arts,music, weight lifting or anything else that you are into besides this type of stuff? if not i suggest you do, there are plenty of cool people into this this type of stuff & you could just chill and get your mind off things.

but the needy approval seeking desperate feeling you display will only drive girls away from you actually it's pretty unattractive to anyone...

trust me,i have been through that route also


quite honestly dude, you sound like you have bigger things then woman to think about and work through,whatever gapping hole in your ego you are trying to fill up with girls/dating you must fix it first before you go screwing up peoples lives..
in a month or two view THE MASTERY & DEEP INNER GAME
SERIES DVD by David D.
it should help you out tremendouslly

 

[Desdinova]

For me, when I am chasing my passion and everything, I feel the most sexy and the most women interested in me, but its at these times that I have no interest in women at all. Then when I come home from work or the gym, I look at my caller id and see that I have no women to put the icing on my new life that I have created, so now I am forced to go out and FOCUS on getting women, and its at these times, that I don’t do feel comfortable nor do women respond greatly to me.

Like I mentioned in the other thread, having fun and following your passions comes first. Picking up women is a side project.

When you're out having fun and living your life, keep your eyes open for opportunities. Combine the two together and you won't be wasting any time. You won't come home from the club beating yourself up for not picking up a woman because you had fun regardless!

Master PUAs can go out solely for the purpose of picking up women because it's fun for them. You're not at that stage yet. Begin picking up women while you're out having fun. This way, you're not being hard pressed to succeed and you'll be more comfortable doing your approaches because you're not there for the sole purpose of sarging. You're there for the sole purpose of having fun!