"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay is it OKAY to be direct with an attention *****

verysuave

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has anyone tried this or would this be one of those EPIC failures?

Like, direct as in, hey, "lets hang out and u know, powchicapowpow"

jusssst wondering. tnx
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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You have to be careful with that. More often than not, they dont respond, or respond negatively. I try this all the time, and it only works with girls I have an active sexuality with, or when its done SUPER playfully, and they take it as a joke.

Generally, dont be too blunt until A: you've had sex, and B she's still interested.
 

KontrollerX

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Initially you can try to interact with them like any normal woman that is to say be c0cky and funny or attempt some form of interesting dialogue with them.

Once the b.s starts just ignore them and give attention to other girls then she'll gradually be begging for your time until you and she are fvcking all night long.

Thing to remember with AW's is they are all about guys who have established social value and viability with other women.

They are covetous, jealous of what others have.

So when many women want you and many guys want to be your friend they too suddenly want you as to them you equal status boost and most importantly their very lifeblood which is to say attention and even more than they were previously getting.

To be with you they now get to be the girlfriend of...
 
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