"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay, I seriously don't get it I am "Oblivious" to whats going on here?

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So the LITUIANIAN CHIC IS RED FLAGGEDD, that I see.

But what the fucck is going on. Let me try and calm down abit and figure this out. So the last time I saw her, was on Friday 14.05.10, yesterday. I walked straight passed her, said Hi, she smiled, and mumbled something. Bla Bla, no conversation issued with her, I got on with my gym routine.

So today, approximately 2 hours ago, I called her up and asked her to COME HANG OUT WITH ME AT A BAR.

She goes into this bullshyt about, nobody LIKES HER, MEN DON'T WANT TO FUCCK HER, and asking me if I have OTHER PRETTY GIRLS TO GO AND TALK TO, she thought we were just friends bla bla

But when she INVITED ME to come and get her number, it wasnt a "friendly" gesture, it was BEDROOM EYES.

So then, she said yeah I'll come hang out, but will U have other people there (my friends) I said yeah, so she said well I'll just be on my own. This is the Lituianian chic from last weekend.

I DON'T KNOW IF SHE IS TRYING TO LET ME DOWN NICELY by saying "no men want to fucck her, and she doesn;t have any friends etc etc, she was dead serious about this" so I deleted her number and she sent me this:

"Dnt tlk to me ne more, ive been treated like shyt before. Just remember I'm not against U, I just wanna be on my own
"

SERIOUSLY, this dating thing is really chipping away at me :confused: :confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Another Text from the pity pot -

"
Ok I tell U what, I'll be honest with U, I'm looking for a a long term relationship, so I gave U my number, cos I thought that U were that right person, I can feel that Ur not into anything like that, so I cnt go against it, I might be single, its cos I'm looking for that person to respect meand not being rude and mean. I'm seeing someone now, I guess I'm not so longer as you're saying.
"
 
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women are only good for two good things:

Kitchens

and Sex.

And half the time- we're doing the hard work
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDamage said:
Signs of low interest, you are yesterday's news.

You should have esscalated and attempted to fuk close her the very same day.

NEXT!!
Yeah, I hate being flaked on, why can't girls be straight up. They're outspoken when they want to be in terms of arguements and being called out on, yet they won't flake on their co-workers or friends without a valid reason.

Its most definetly next for this one - I feel like throwing a 45 barbell around her forhead the next time I see her, for making me look like a desperate LOSER.
 

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She didn't make you look like a desperate loser, you believe yourself to look like one. This is more than likely a "Flake Sh|t Test". You failed this time, next time you see her, ignore any eye contact or interaction with her or just game some other girls there. Its her loss, not yours, hers. Girls are weaklings when it comes to refusing a "hang out" or "date" invite. You will succeed. Get up and keep striking a blow for the team. Its happend to the best of us.
 
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