"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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okay, i picked up a hb8.. but guess who picked up the phone. NO ITS NOT THE BF

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so, i approached this hb8's number... i think she's 18-19 yrs old ish.. god i hope..
got her number after a little quick chat. this is how it went

me: so, whats your name?
hb: lesley
me: hi, my name is verysuave.
me: so, whats your status? married, single, divorced, swinger?
hb: single.. me and my bf broke up last week
me: who broke up with who?
hb: well.. we both decided to
me: oh really, so tell me, where you from?
hb: i'm from morgan hills, we just moved here
me:morgan hills.. i heard girls from that place are trouble =)
hb: nott mee =)
me: so, whatcha doing next week?
hb: mm i donno yet, not sure what my schedule is
me: aright, give me your number
hb: okay, its 333 3333
me: okay, well i got to get going (shook her hand as i left)

3 weeks later.. (yesterday)i call the number.. a guy picks up.. with a manly voice..

I almost wanted to hang up but i've never met a girl i was interested in like this before cuz, damn, she was really hot (and to be honest, i just wanted to be her friend). so i decided to say:

(I've never had this ex[erience before where the dad picks up the phone..since back in HS, i was such a wuss and never had a date or even had any chick friends)

me: "uhh hi, can i please speak to lesley plz"
dad: "she's out running right now"
me: "ohh okay"
dad: "may i ask who is speaking"
me: "this is verysuave"
dad: "does she have your number? can i get it so i can have her return your call"
me: "no she doesn't, i'll call back some other time. Thank you though, have a good day"
dad: "okay"

wow.. Dad picked up the phone...lol

so, what to make of this? im really not sure. Either way, my real intention is to be just her friend and hook up with her friends and use her as social proof
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude,I don't understand what it is you're asking. You called her house,her dad answered the phone. And? What do you want to know? What is your question? She lives with her parents,right? You called her house,she wasn't home,so her dad answered the phone and tried to take a message. And you made a thread about that?
 

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Reminds me of a time I called this girl and her Mom answered. Only I didn't realize it was her mom since I didn't know she lived at home. So I flirted a bit in my opening of the call before her mother said, "You must be looking for my daughter." "Yeah... I suppose so." "She's not home. Her cell is XXX-XXXX." "Thanks, bye."

So then I don't remember the whole number since I was dumb and didn't write it down, so I guessed. And guessed wrong. Called the mother back and asked for it again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah, shouldnt she have a cellphone.. for someone hot like her, i mean common, theres nobody i know who doesnt have a cellphone over the age of 18.

what im asking is, why would anyone give their home number... lol. its just not very uhh.. modern
 

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I've gave girls my home phone# before, and they wined up telling me my mom sounds like a *****. I can't see this as a bad sign. If she doesn't have a cellphone, oh well, some *****es out there use their cells religiously and that gets annoying as ****.
 

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hanson said:
I've gave girls my home phone# before, and they wined up telling me my mom sounds like a *****. I can't see this as a bad sign. If she doesn't have a cellphone, oh well, some *****es out there use their cells religiously and that gets annoying as ****.
why would you give them you home number? and your age?
 

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i didn't have a cellphone at the time, she might not have one also
 

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hmm very suave I see your concern here.

It is very unusual for her father who lives in the same house as her to pick up the phone when it rings.

I honestly don't know what to make of this one...hmm give me some time to think about it and I'll get back to you ASAP. I WON'T LET YOU DOWN MAN!!!
:rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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