Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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okay, i picked up a hb8.. but guess who picked up the phone. NO ITS NOT THE BF

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so, i approached this hb8's number... i think she's 18-19 yrs old ish.. god i hope..
got her number after a little quick chat. this is how it went

me: so, whats your name?
hb: lesley
me: hi, my name is verysuave.
me: so, whats your status? married, single, divorced, swinger?
hb: single.. me and my bf broke up last week
me: who broke up with who?
hb: well.. we both decided to
me: oh really, so tell me, where you from?
hb: i'm from morgan hills, we just moved here
me:morgan hills.. i heard girls from that place are trouble =)
hb: nott mee =)
me: so, whatcha doing next week?
hb: mm i donno yet, not sure what my schedule is
me: aright, give me your number
hb: okay, its 333 3333
me: okay, well i got to get going (shook her hand as i left)

3 weeks later.. (yesterday)i call the number.. a guy picks up.. with a manly voice..

I almost wanted to hang up but i've never met a girl i was interested in like this before cuz, damn, she was really hot (and to be honest, i just wanted to be her friend). so i decided to say:

(I've never had this ex[erience before where the dad picks up the phone..since back in HS, i was such a wuss and never had a date or even had any chick friends)

me: "uhh hi, can i please speak to lesley plz"
dad: "she's out running right now"
me: "ohh okay"
dad: "may i ask who is speaking"
me: "this is verysuave"
dad: "does she have your number? can i get it so i can have her return your call"
me: "no she doesn't, i'll call back some other time. Thank you though, have a good day"
dad: "okay"

wow.. Dad picked up the phone...lol

so, what to make of this? im really not sure. Either way, my real intention is to be just her friend and hook up with her friends and use her as social proof
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dude,I don't understand what it is you're asking. You called her house,her dad answered the phone. And? What do you want to know? What is your question? She lives with her parents,right? You called her house,she wasn't home,so her dad answered the phone and tried to take a message. And you made a thread about that?
 

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Reminds me of a time I called this girl and her Mom answered. Only I didn't realize it was her mom since I didn't know she lived at home. So I flirted a bit in my opening of the call before her mother said, "You must be looking for my daughter." "Yeah... I suppose so." "She's not home. Her cell is XXX-XXXX." "Thanks, bye."

So then I don't remember the whole number since I was dumb and didn't write it down, so I guessed. And guessed wrong. Called the mother back and asked for it again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah, shouldnt she have a cellphone.. for someone hot like her, i mean common, theres nobody i know who doesnt have a cellphone over the age of 18.

what im asking is, why would anyone give their home number... lol. its just not very uhh.. modern
 

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I've gave girls my home phone# before, and they wined up telling me my mom sounds like a *****. I can't see this as a bad sign. If she doesn't have a cellphone, oh well, some *****es out there use their cells religiously and that gets annoying as ****.
 

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hanson said:
I've gave girls my home phone# before, and they wined up telling me my mom sounds like a *****. I can't see this as a bad sign. If she doesn't have a cellphone, oh well, some *****es out there use their cells religiously and that gets annoying as ****.
why would you give them you home number? and your age?
 

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i didn't have a cellphone at the time, she might not have one also
 

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hmm very suave I see your concern here.

It is very unusual for her father who lives in the same house as her to pick up the phone when it rings.

I honestly don't know what to make of this one...hmm give me some time to think about it and I'll get back to you ASAP. I WON'T LET YOU DOWN MAN!!!
:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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