"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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okay i know raising interest level you need to be unpredictable mystery challenge how

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I cant find anything about being challenge i need to know how ill understand this also how do u be predictable? Never respond or respond late hit her up random days?? And whata mystery how do i develop social proof aka looo popular if i can't do rap shows anymore

Im sorry guys but im at the bottom working way up
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sometimes you can do everything right and you'll never see the chick again. Sometimes you can do everything wrong and still get the lay.

I think most of us can attest to the fact that being aloof definitely works with some women, but we have all lost out on women for being too alpha/aloof as well. Just go with your instincts, read her interest level, and try to be as natural as possible with your texts etc. An occasional misspelling or two wont hurt, change up your response times. Go an hour without responding to one text, then respond within 5 seconds of the next text.
 
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