I have been on this site for a while and I have learned alot. and have decided to lleave this site and live my life. mb come back one day and help those who need help. so with that being said here is my ony problem right now. if you read this help me out i need as much insight into this as possible so i can fix it.
I have always been good at attracting girls, i could attract any girl i desired without no problem but the problem is that i could never keep that interest because I over analyze and over think everything. if she doesnt call me for a day or two id think she lost interest. and due to overthinking i would call too much or call to little. or show too much or too little interest and eventualli it led to low interest.
currently theres this older grl at work who I went out on a date with on wednsday, it went extremley well we ended up making out everywhere and holding hands. i see her basically every day at work except for friday and saturday and wedns cause thats our days off.
If i dont talk to her everyday would that keep her interest high? or is it talking on the phone everyday where im on her mind and prevent the out of sight out of mind thing? I saw her wednsday and idk when is the next time i should take her out. I know everytime we do go out it should be an action date. so should 2 or 3 fun dates a week be enough to keep her attraction high. I mean i know this girl likes me she is used to a car but took the BUS in 20 degree weather to come see me. so i know for a fact that she does like me.
she is the party type of girl who parties every weekend, and keeps telling me i should go party with her. but idk how that would work if i would only dance with her all night or dance with other girls and she does the same. but anyways all advice and insights on her would be appreaciated.
I have always been good at attracting girls, i could attract any girl i desired without no problem but the problem is that i could never keep that interest because I over analyze and over think everything. if she doesnt call me for a day or two id think she lost interest. and due to overthinking i would call too much or call to little. or show too much or too little interest and eventualli it led to low interest.
currently theres this older grl at work who I went out on a date with on wednsday, it went extremley well we ended up making out everywhere and holding hands. i see her basically every day at work except for friday and saturday and wedns cause thats our days off.
If i dont talk to her everyday would that keep her interest high? or is it talking on the phone everyday where im on her mind and prevent the out of sight out of mind thing? I saw her wednsday and idk when is the next time i should take her out. I know everytime we do go out it should be an action date. so should 2 or 3 fun dates a week be enough to keep her attraction high. I mean i know this girl likes me she is used to a car but took the BUS in 20 degree weather to come see me. so i know for a fact that she does like me.
she is the party type of girl who parties every weekend, and keeps telling me i should go party with her. but idk how that would work if i would only dance with her all night or dance with other girls and she does the same. but anyways all advice and insights on her would be appreaciated.