"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Okay for 30/40+ women to live with parents, but not men?

ThisNThat

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I saw this dating profile of a woman, age 40, no kids, never married. She seems kind of flippant about the fact she lives with her parents in a well known retirement community. Yes, she lives in a retirement community...with her parents. She's pretty hot as she's a tanned Asian woman...and she had a couple of bikini pics up.

She'd be good for something temporary since she is local and hot ladies are rarely UN-attached in small towns...so I'm guessing she just moved here.

If a man was in that situation...women would label him a social pariah, yes?

She then explains this situation would be later discussed with a man should he be curious about her living situation. So she at least acknowledges her situation, then mentions she had adult ADD or something like that. She's a woman-child? (see man-child)

No kids, surprisingly.

I also went out on a date with a 45 year old woman that NEVER moved out...not even for college or "moved out and moved back in" What's sad, she's been a school teacher for 20+ years and she's likely been socking away a lot of money.

She actually lives with her mother and grandmother (Father and mother is divorced)

She's still going to be living with them when she retires?

Her reason, "I don't like to live by myself, I'm sociable, I like people around...must be a woman thing."

A woman thing??

I also have a female neighbor, mid-to-late 30s that is still living with her parents. Yes, and she's cute, too....she works at some small food shop that her mother opened up. She really doesn't do much for that job, and gets paid for it.

I dunno, but I'm curious as to what kind of guy these women are looking for if they are living comfortably under their parents roof? If they find out if some guy is living with their parents, are they going to say, "OH! I live with my parents too! You turn me on!!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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Because men only date women for their looks.

Women date men for their looks and a WHOLE lot more. @AlphaNate listed some of them.
 

dude99

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A woman living with her parents never married no kids never moved out.

Greek.
 
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