Okay Advice on new girl and my actions so far.

[Tiggis]

Met a doll about 6 months ago at a party.
Asked for her number, she gave it.

Called her and she did not seem too into me.. so I didnt pursue.. more fish out there.

Saw her again about 3 months ago.. in a bar we sat and talked for an hour or more at a single meet and greet.. she asked why I didnt call and I said that she didnt seem interested and I didnt want to ruin our budding friendship. She laughed and said that she had just started dating some guy.. I asked what happend with him and she said they were still together.. he was sitting 50 feet away talking to other people leaving her there to talk to me.

I told her that any guy who would let her talk to me for an hour in a singles bar did not appreciate what he had..


I bumped into her again a month ago.. and she was single without him again.. I asked her when we were going out and she said that she was taking some time for herself.. so I said .. okay.. is Friday good? She gave me her number again..

I waited and called her 4 days later and her schedule would not allow her to see me except on Weds.. I said I was busy that day so we would have to do it next week..

Called her that Friday and made a date for the following weds.. comedy club and eat after..

I asked her if she was going to the singles meet that night and she said she didnt think so.. I told her I was going..

I was there for about and hour when she showed up and she hung around me for the evening..

I danced with her and she rubbed up against me I kissed her a few times on the dance floor.. we did some light sexy talk.. keep me out for friend area..

Did not call until Tues to be sure of the wed date not allot of small talk got the job done got off the phone..


Nice date wed.. talked.. more light sex talk and lots of laughs..

When I got her home she did not do the open the door and kiss me but stood outside and talked some.. she asked me the strangest queston..
"Why were you so persistent in asking me out after the first tiime?"

I told her I thought she was funny and attractive and I wanted to know her better..

No calls until last sunday when I called and set a date for this sat night..

I did send her an email today just telling I looked forward to Sat...


How am I doing?

What have I dont wrong.?

what about that question?

Should I begin to call more or stay aloof

She did say I was hard to figure out.. that I had so much confidence more than most men.. is that good..?

thanks guys.. btw I might like to keep this one.. she has somthing.. ..

TIG

 

[Tiggis]

Help me damit!

 

[b's nuts]

Sounds like you are playing it pretty well, and it sounds like its working, so keep doing what you are doing. I wouldn't worry about the question, I used to get these from my current gf before we hooked up, and from what I have found, more often than not, they are just fishing for compliments. I don't know if I would have sent the email, but whats done is done, and you probably got her thinking about it more which is good. I would suggest chasing her a lot, let her know you are real interested, and then back off - then she will hound you.

 

[Julian]

Alright man, no more crazy chasing. She knows your interested, and as far as i see it she is interested in you as well. Seems like you've been on quite a few "dates" plus you've known her for awhile so its safe to say you got the cat in the bag. Just play your cards right.

Saturday night bring in mad kino and invite her back to your place. This is key because on this date you need to bring it to the next level.

 

[bp1974]

This is key because on this date you need to bring it to the next level.

I agree. This next date is your chance to see if she's stringing you along for a bit of attention, or if she's serious about really getting it on with you.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Tiggis
When I got her home she did not do the open the door and kiss me but stood outside and talked some.. she asked me the strangest queston..
"Why were you so persistent in asking me out after the first tiime?"

I told her I thought she was funny and attractive and I wanted to know her better..

You DID tip your hand there a little. Might not be a bad thing, but it goes a little ways to weaken your level of mystery. Why would she ask...she KNOWS why. It's a BS question and I'd call her on it.

I would've said, "It WORKED, didn't it? "