"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is the first text msg?
What is the first facebook msg?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i usually don't start text gaming until i've atleast gotten a first date. the first text is usually a friendly one reminding her of who i am and how she met me.

something like "hey, it was nice meeting you HB9 at club 911. Get home safe."

i do this so when i do give them a call they'll actually remember who i am and feel like they've already had atleast one conversation with me so i won't be a complete stranger.
 
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Call her, why are you going to take her number when your not going to call it?

Usually in life the more harder road is the most rewading road, it takes more of a man to call a girl than to text her, but she will appreciate you more for it. Its also just plain easier to set up dates on the phone instead of sending an army of text messages to build rapport.
 
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Your first text should always be a request. Same with the first email. People find themselves drawn closer to someone when they have gone out of their way to help them. Yeah, sounds odd as hell. The thing is that in most cases it works. They have invested their time in you and now they are not going to let you just walk away. Think about it. It really does work.

Basically, my success is based on something that American men never do these days. That is lead. That is to make sure that the broads who are spoiled and feminized are the ones to do things for you. The ones who will listen and follow. I suggest you make her call you "The General". Something that denotes power and leadership.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Follow up that night or the next day with a really silly/outrageous text, if she responds then maybe respond to that but then stop for a little bit. A few days later text her and then when she responds give her a call and set up a date.

Every situation is different, though.
 
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